Sex on the First Date

[marieelissa]

 

[DJBOBBS]

i dont because i dont want to give off that im pressuring her into a situation that she doesnt want to be in. Id rather be respectful to who she is as an individual and give off that i care about her beyond who she is physically.

[Lusie]

Depends on how well you know each other. My man and me never really had a "date" before we slept together. But we had been best friends for 6 months before we started "seeing" each other and 10 months before we slept with each other. To me it is more meaningful when it is with some one you know and trust versus some one you just met.

[giang11]

It all depends on the situation and your partner. If they're comfortable then jump on it! But keep this in mind, always respect each other decision.

[cherrington17]

depends on age.  Kids(anyone who can't look back on a time in their life and laugh at the foolishness... the age number varies) mistake love for lust all the time.  It makes the moral line hazy.

But with adults... it truly depends.  If they are looking for something serious (normally) you'd want to wait and see how the personal connection goes.  If it goes anywhere, then you give in to the physical. 

BUT.. lets face it... as adults, there are times when you find that perfect fling, who hits all the right buttons.  And diving it is just as rewarding, if you understand that its purely physical and filled a need.  If theres a connection left when the hormones subside.. then it wasn't bad.  If there isn't.. then don't try to force there to be... leave it as it was.  A one night fantasy

[Lusie]

I dont know me personnally I would have to really know the person before I did that. I screwed up once and got married to the man a month after we met. We had a very abusive relationship was with him 13 years before I left and when I did leave I had to leave TN also just to put distance between.. I dont want to fall into another situation like that.

[Graeth]

It all depends. You can have known the person really long before the romantic relationship.
It's all situationally dependent.
Just don't give it away easily; be cautions.

[sammywantsya]

i remember my first sex date :p but then again sometimes alot of things can go wrong ^^