she was being serious but inside I was laughing at such a comparison.
That is good to hear. Those of us that are free often laugh inside at the many seemingly paradoxes we see all around us. I know now that I am free I look back and just shake my head at how lost and blind I used to be (still am to a degree) but virtually everything I did, learned and knew prior to 25 was really nothing it was all preparation for the next 25 years. We all just need time to be alive for a while before our minds are prepared to comprehend the vastness of all there is to know and if we are fortunate to know what even 1/100000000 of it all means.
Obviously kids are severely insecure, fragile, arrogant, lost and don't have one iota of a clue in that they can afford to be when they have loving parents but they literally just don't fully understand how their words and actions fully affect those around them, partially because they have *bleep* for attention spans and have virtually no memory after the fact of what they say or do. Usually they just move on to the next thing going on in their fragile little minds. The same qualities that make them weak in all these areas are simultaneously what make them great, and that they forget, forgive, let go, trust, believe and are hopeful. They haven't lived long and haven't seen the true world yet, at least most kids, i'm sure the kids from angola would argue that point, but aside from a few exceptions it takes a while to learn to have a decent and accurate moral compass.
The fact you can laugh at the absurdity shows you aren't fragile as many are and can control initial reactions in lieu of well analyzed, planned and appropriate responses and/or reactions. Not being subject to our multitude of emotions and overreactions is a skill not easily tamed but one that is priceless once learned.
So many people are severely insecure, fearful, distrusting, uneducated and much much more and I have seen that sometimes they act out to those around them to inherently and/or instinctually find out whom around them is strong enough to count on to allow them to act out without dire consequences. It seems to be an inherent behavior built into our dna as it truly lets us know who we can count on and whom can handle life's great challenges and then those people naturally have people gravitate towards them of course there are exceptions. Too many people resent those that can let go and still be confident because they are free to some degree and know the little things count for a lot but aren't worth getting stuck on and since many people are raised quite poorly (myself included) it is a clear-cut decision to be patient, generous, kind, loving etc etc towards those still searching to the path as many people were patient with us when we possibly didn't know it because they knew we hadn't reached true freedom yet.
ok this has snowballed enough.