FLOREZITTA'S CHAT ROOM

[florezitta10]

I am so very sorry! I am at lost of words....I'm not very good with comforting people who have handled a lost since I myself haven't lost anyone yet. I have a son and not long ago I remember thinkng when I was pregnant, "I hope I don't have a miscarriage".I can't imagine how your wife is feeling....or your other daugthers. Be thankful for what you have at this moment and rememer that God and your "FC friends" are there for you!    

Hi Surveydad!
I read this post yesterday, I would have posted sooner but I didn't know what to say/write. So I kind of thought "what would help me feel better if this happened to me?" And for the life of me I can't think of anything.
So I just want to say I'm so sorry for your loss.
Although this is horrible and I can't think of any reason why, but everything happens for a reason. Stay strong for you family, I know you can. You're in my thoughts and I hope everything gets better.

Workmama and Koki,

Thank you very much for your knid words,  It is very true when people say "the miracle of life " because that is exactly what it is a miracle. this has giving me a new respect for that. I have just been looking at my girls and thanking God for them everyday.

My wife is trying to stay busy, to try to take her mind off of things, I don't blame her and the girls are a good distraction.

We could not tell the girls the truth about what really happened, They won't really understand so we just told them that the doctors made a mistake and there was no baby. they seemed ok with that. and they don't have to carry that loss like my wife and I do.

I am trying to stay strong for my wife so it helps me to come on FC and get this stuff out, Thanks for listening (or reading)

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Hello surveydad, I am so deeply sorry for your loss I know words can not express the pain you and your wife must be feeling but I pray that god will give you peace and shower your family with many blessings.

[florezitta10]

HAS ANYONE SEEN FLOR? I MISS YOU! 

hey girl I missed ya too There has been so many things going on in my family. It is just exhausting but god willing I will be back here like always

[surveydad]

Hello surveydad, I am so deeply sorry for your loss I know words can not express the pain you and your wife must be feeling but I pray that god will give you peace and shower your family with many blessings.

Thanks Flor, I have been staying stong for my wife and she has been taking things for the most part very well, maybe she is staying strong for me.

[workmama]

Hey Koki,
I hope you come back to this chatroom soon! I miss you! I posted to you last week but never read a response..hope you're okay! 

[irishlady1970]

Hi Flo, Hi everyone. It is raining out of the heavens right now and my garden is very grateful for it. It has been so warm and dry this summer all the rain we get is a blessing. Thanks Flo for the advice on the Iphone, I think I will get the older version rather than the new one. I also found out that I have to buy the media package to have the Iphone and I'm not sure if I can afford to pay an extra $39.99 a month for my cell phone. Oh well, I will have to see.
It has been nice chatting, but I am off to bed now, it's really late. I'll pop in again soon. Be safe everyone.

[GoGoKokiGo]

@ Koki!
Hey! Glad you responded to my last post. Sorry that it has taken me awhile to reply back, I've been busy this past week and with the holiday weekend and all, trying to get everything done on a certain schedule, but thats really hard to do with a baby! I started today getting up at like 6am, I figured that it would be better than staying up intil 1 or 2 am in the morning trying to get all my work done online. So far, I'm on schedule..I think.   Well, what I meant about your picture is that I just thought you looked a little different...I don't know how to explain it. You seem really nice in your picture and I'm the same way. I hate for someone to cut my hair too...I'm not that talkative to them either. Somehow I get sleepy when someone is messing with my hair. Haven't you noticed that when someone else touches your head or combs your hair that it feels so much better than when you do it yourself?   I do love going to the salon and buying hair products though...I love the smell...you should try Regis Sculpting Mud, its great for your hair if you have frizz...its about 10 bucks a container, but its the best. You can buy it at any salon. I once tried to cut my own hair too, but that didn't work out right..although people gave me compliments..I thought my hair looked like crap...so I won't attempt at that again!
2 weeks...and no bank robberies here! LOL  
Well, I have more work to do...so I'll catch up with you later.  

Hi everyone!
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Hi Surveydad!
I just wanted to write and say that I hope you family is doing well.
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HI FLOR!
Wanted to check in and say hi hi!
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Irishlady, you and your plants are very lucky. I'm dying for rain right now.
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I'm sorry you were right Workmama I did miss your post. Sorry it took me forever. I've been really busy. Not sure with what..I just know the days have gone by quick and it seems like I was doing a lot.

^_^ I also get sleepy when someone messes with my hair. One time the hairdresser was blow drying my hair out, but he was doing it from front to back. So when he was done with a section of hair he would flip it over so it would be in front of my face. I was in a complete daze. Not only was a stuck behind a dark curtain of hair, but he was brushing my hair and blow drying it so the warm heat was hitting me. When he finally flipped my hair over it was like I was seeing the sun for the first time in a few days.

I haven't bought any products from a salon though. Maybe because I'm infallibly cheap. LOL. I don't even really like to get my hair done. I know it doesn't cost very much but I'm just cheap. I always feel bad when I spend a lot of money. Usually a lot of money for me is anything over $20. Unless there is some kind of deal to it. Like I just bought a bunch of E.L.F. makeup because it's cheap but they had this promotion going on where you can get 50% off. I was in heaven. Just until they sent me an email saying they were having a 60% off sale.

Sorry I haven't been on much by the way. I don't know maybe it's the heat. It's getting really bad out here. Usually it's hot in the morning and nice and cool at night. But last night I went to the grocery store with my husband and it was just as bad as it was during the day. It was muggy...is that the right term? That's what came to my mind when I thought about last night. I didn't even sleep with a cover. LOL Usually at some point during my sleep I'll cling to my husband or sleep in the little bend of his arm but I couldn't bring myself to do it. It was too hot!!! It's bad to day as well. My usual trick to keeping cool during hot days is to rinse off in the shower then not really dry myself off. But even that didn't work. I don't function well in the heat. It's just too bad I love California too much. It's so bad that I'm actually going to clean out the ice box just so I can have a reason for standing in front of it.

I could probably go to the beach or something but I don't really want to get all out in the sun. I've noticed that whenever I put sunblock on to protect myself from the sun, I always miss a spot. Or it wears off before I even realize it and get burned anyway. So it would probably be better if I just stay indoors and curse the sun.

[nb0404]

what is this about.

[surveydad]

Hi Koki,

 Thanks for your concern, family is doing better then I expected. My wife is staying busy so that helps.

She has got our girls signed up for like everything, like T-ball, Soccer, Hockey, we did swimming lessons and she even put them in a little acting class she found, it has been great the kids love it and it keeps her mind busy.


I hear you about the heat, its hot over here on the east side of the country, I can only guess how it is for your guys on the west. hope you have the Air on to keep cool, I hate being hot and I sleep much better in the cold my wife likes it the other way around.   

[irishlady1970]

Hi, is anybody home? Just popping in to see how are things. I noticed it has been way too quiet in here lately, what gives? I bet you are all enjoying the summer and hopefully doing some fun things. Work has been busy for me and keeps me away from FC and doing offers. I do squeeze in the daily clicks and email, and I also find time to look for the videos. Unfortunately the forums are acking some good topics to respond to, so I tend to not post too much unless I see something interesting or someone I can help. Any how, I am off to do some knitting. Catch you all later. Take care.

[workmama]

Hi, is anybody home? Just popping in to see how are things. I noticed it has been way too quiet in here lately, what gives? I bet you are all enjoying the summer and hopefully doing some fun things. Work has been busy for me and keeps me away from FC and doing offers. I do squeeze in the daily clicks and email, and I also find time to look for the videos. Unfortunately the forums are acking some good topics to respond to, so I tend to not post too much unless I see something interesting or someone I can help. Any how, I am off to do some knitting. Catch you all later. Take care.

HI irishlady1970~      I know it has been getting quieter in this chatroom. I keep thinking where is Flor, or where is Koki? When they chatted with me everyday, I replied more in here. I also have been busy. My son wants nothing more to do but play outside, all day, all the time!!! I have tried to convince him that it is just too hot...but I think he is still too young to understand. Plus, he likes to go to his cousins and swim in their pool. Last week, it was soooo hot here that it was too hot to even go swimming!     The heat index here in Oklahoma has reached 111 degrees. It is suppose to rain today, so I hope it will. At least then that will be an excuse to stay in, but knowing my son, he'll say something like, "Play in Rain, Play in Rain!!!". Well, just thought I would chat with you. Hope you are doing well and stop by here frequently, I'll chat with you. Have a wonderful day...bye!   

[irishlady1970]

Hi there Workmama, good to see you. I was beginning to think that this room was on vacation or something. My God it is hot where you are at, and I was thinking I was bad here in Maine with 80 to 90 degree weather, lol. I feel for you and hope you get some relief soon. Kids are unbelievable aren't they? Nothing stops them from playing not the rain, snow, or heat. I think it's healthy for kids to be outside playing with other kids, unlike some kids stuck in the house all day playing video games or glued to the t.v.
I miss Flor and the crew and reading their posts. Not to fret I figure they are busy and will be back when they have time. As always it is nice to be able to pop in here and chat. You take care Workmama and try and stay cool. Catch you later 

[GoGoKokiGo]

^_^ I'm here I'm here! Sorry for some reason...still not sure why though...I've been quite busy. Still not sure why though. The weeks just rush by really quick and I'm like "oh it's over?"

  I've been riding around with my husband's friend he hung out with while he was in high school helping her run errands. I just started hanging out with her about 3 weeks ago. In this 3 week period she has asked us to borrow money twice. It's not just ten dollars or 20. The first time it was $120 then the second was $100. If I had tons of money sure I would give it to her. But she knows that I'm on unemployment (which has been cut off till now) and looking for a job, and that my husband works his *bleep* off most of the week. I don't wear anything flashy and we live in the same area she does. Actually we live in the apartments right behind her. So I don't know why she would think we have that kind of money.Other then her laps in judgment as to who to ask money for, I like her.

  I've also been spending time with my husbands closer friends. They're a little weird and dorky but not so bad. They're these 3 brothers he's known since high school. I feel bad because one of them likes hanging out with this girl and spending his whole check on her (or so that's what his brother's have said to me.) and she still hasn't as his youngest brother said it and for lack of a better term "put out." Lol I'm not saying that women should give up sex just because a guy buys something for her. But I found out that he has been doing this even before I met my husband. Still not saying she should "put out" or anything. But I've been with my husband for about six years now. So that's six years (or more) of him spending money on her and her not even acknowledging him as anything more then an atm. He pays for him and her to ride the bus so that he can take her to work then he rides it back by himself, sometimes he goes back on the bus to pick her up from work. This would be totally cute if she wasn't using him.

  Other then that they're all pretty hopeless when it comes to girls. Their mother messed them up. She had them use lemons as deodorant. LEMONS! They sleep in their street clothes then get right back up and keep wearing the same thing. I went to their house one day to help them with their internet, then the next day my husband and I went back to visit them and they were wearing the exact same clothes...ALL 3 OF THEM! Not just one ALL!  The oldest one will try talking to a girl but the conversation always ends up with him talking about karate. The youngest one wears a dirty baseball hat everywhere. But he has the best chance of any of them as I see it. I don't know what to tell them. My thought was that if they had a girlfriend they would become cleaner and stuff. But it won't work if they can't get a girlfriend. It's a vicious cycle of bad hygiene.

  So that's all I've been doing. I hope you all are well!!! I'll try to be on more. I tire of going outside already.  I got a sunburn. I had covered my whole face and neck and any bit of skin that showed through but I totally missed a part of my skin that was exposed. It was a small bit that was near the neck opening of my shirt and the tank top I had under it. So it's like a weird triangle. No more of that!

[irishlady1970]

Hi GoGoKokiGo, Lol I loved reading your post. You know, your Hubby's friend should give up on that girl that is treating him like an atm. Most men would have moved on ages ago. He must be in love with her or something to have waited around as long as you said. Those 3 boys are messed up for sure. What Mother in her right mind makes a kid wear lemons for deodorant? Thats just wrong, lol. I think it's funny though, forgive me for saying so. Yeah, the weather in my neck of the world is hot too and I am loving it, because before we know it the snow will be on the ground and I will be complaining about how cold it is. Anyhow, it's great to see you pop in even though life is so hectic and busy. Stay safe and cool.

[TaintedLust]

Hi all, just thought I'd pop on while I've got the chance. Been so busy here lately. My daughter has days where she wants to be held non stop so it's tough to log on here. My daughter turns 1 in october and I'm already thinking ahead. I want it to be a very special day being how hard she had to fight just to survive. Her father and I plan to take a ton of pictures. Anyway, need to tend to my daughter. Have a nice night everyone.

[surveydad]

Hey everyone, just stopping by to say hi and how is everyone?  this is my 150TH post I have not been on alot this month