WHY DO MEN CHEAT???

[adam4000]

not all men are cheaters and it takes two to tango......just as many women cheat

true that i have had girls cheat on me and i have never cheat not even one

[NayNay2104]

I think everyone tends to get lonely at some point, even if you are with someone you care about very much....

[apples45]

Because there stupid lol sorry just kidding bad joke.

But seriously guys should think more with the head that has brain inside it, instead of they other one. especially if they have a good loyal woman. maybe if they really thought about there actions, and what they would lose and who there hurting then maybe men would not cheat, I mean really think is one even two moments of pleasure worth the loss of someone that they truly cared about. you ask why men cheat who knows why.

There are many theory's on why men cheat, but there's no way to pin point exactly why they do this the only theory I have is maybe its part biology and part stupidity meaning some men have very little self control over there biological urges, for some men not all.

[Storm61115]

im sorry to those who have been cheated on. i have cheated and i also know what it feels like to be cheated on but i didnt start cheating until my man cheated on me. i just wanted to make him feel the kind of pain that i did when i found out he cheated on me. i thought we were even but i found out from trusted friends that there was more times that it thought there was. yes it hurt to hear. i dont like cheating on people. it makes me feel real guilty and it stresses me out to try to keep the other guy from knowing. lying and everything is not good for ur health!! thats the trust people. im telling u from personal experience. i dont cheat ne more and i dont plan to and life has been so much better since i havent cheated on my current man. i love him to death and no one else comes close to him. not even my ex's. it's funny how that happens. 

[sgluckadoo]

Cheaters suck.

[lynnc35]

Because they think they can get away with it, because they think about sex with about every girl they look at. Because they don't feel they need to not cheat, they don't have the will power to say no. And yes, they can be in love with someone, but lust is a different story. It is not good, and it is a sin, it is just another thing that until you have the right mindset, the person will not change, not if they don't want to.

[dkanofsky]

Better rephrase that question to "Why do some men find it necessary to cheat "?  I'm a guy who has never cheated on his wife and I've been married twice (first wife died in 1998 ) for a total of 37 years.  Many men find their marriage vows sacred.

[tigerlilly01]

Good Question ... I wish I knew the answer.... but I do know that it tells alot about a person's character or lack of it if they do cheat.  I divorced twice because of a cheating husband.  I am now married to a wonderful man that I could say without a doubt he would never cheat on me.  He has good morals, and a great character.  I do believe if someone cheats once they will do it again.

[superteacher]

Everyone has potential reason to cheat other people. Men and Women. I think that if it doesn't bring out any big consequence a lot of people would cheat for their own convienience.

[trujillo33]

I think both men and women cheat....just depends on the person! I think people cheat because they can;

[stokeman455]

  Why do men cheat? Thats a good question. My 1st wife cheated on me 3 days after we were married, with my best man. So, I thought I foregave her. After my son was born, I purposely cheated on her numerous times with numerous women. I ended up divorcing her after 8 years.

[klvcaudillo]

I think both men and women cheat....just depends on the person! I think people cheat because they can;

Totally agree.  Men and women have different reasons why they cheat.  Some just because they can, others to get back at someone who did it to them first, some even have a complex that happened to them in their childhood that has made them think that being unfaithful is normal.  Unfortunately you can't combine all women and men in the same category and get a straight answer.  There isn't one.
I have been cheated on only once and it DESTROYED my life.  I was 17 at the time.  He was all I knew.  I would torture myself with that question and then I realized that whatever his reasoning was it had nothing to do with me!  I think I know why he cheated but honestly it doesn't matter to me what so ever.. Why because I am thankful that I found out before I got myself in a hot mess with a man who didn't TRULY care for me.  Today I secretly thank him for his scandalous ways!

[Falconer02]

Why do men cheat? Thats a good question. My 1st wife cheated on me 3 days after we were married, with my best man. So, I thought I foregave her. After my son was born, I purposely cheated on her numerous times with numerous women. I ended up divorcing her after 8 years

Wow, dude. That sucks. But why did you drop down to her level? To get back at her? Or were you just not interested in her anymore?

Since everyone's being so honest...I've been in a very strange situation involving 2 women once. I met this girl at work and we really hit it off over the summer. But slowly we kind of drifted apart and rarely contacted eachother to go out. Then this other girl I knew from HS admitted she liked me (right after she broke up with her bf...) and since I hadn't seen girl A in such a long time, I decided to just start going out with girl B. We had a great time and all but then girl A contacted me asking me why I was being so distant! So obviously I was in a tight situation.

I went out with girl A to talk to her about what was going on and how I was confused as to where we were and nevertheless she still wanted to go out with me-- keeping it a slowly-developing relationship I suppose. But after some throught I realized I didn't want to ditch girl B. So, again, girl A and I slowly drifted apart-- we rarely saw eachother out of work. And THEN over a month later, girl B tells me she's not ready for a relationship since she's still hurt over her d-bag ex. Thus I tried rekindling with girl A but she distanced herself from me. Ouch.

Is that cheating, girls? Am I a d-bag too or can I play the naive card here? Either way I feel bad. 

[mrsbluesmith]

Men cheat for the same reason that women cheat and men are faithful for the same reasons that women are faithful. 

[abstract1er]

not all men cheat, for instance i know i am loyal, and i am faithful, so i was cheated on last night by my GF, what does that tell you? i never did nothing wrong to deserve this, im so mad right now, but you know after its happened so many times before i learned to deal with it, so what is there to do, nothing but just moving on and look for new love.