HOW DOES EVERYONE FEEL ABOUT SAME SEX MARRIGE?? ICE BREAKER

[Shauna1821]

As long as it is two consenting adult there is nothing wrong with same sex marriage and i do realize that people do get married just for tax breaks but if thats what most people are worried about then they should question unisex marriages too. If two gay people want to get married let them it is thier choice. I feel as though they are not hurting me in any way so whats the problem?

[workmama]

Well, for 2 years I have had Mirena ( birth control, implanted in the uterus), and I get this nasty feeling that I am destroying my body or something. I would like to have more children and the only reason I use birth control is because of the finicial situation I am in right now. But using birth control I feel like I am not following God's path. Has anyone else felt this way? Or am I just being silly? 

[Robg2]

First I have to ask what does birth control have to do with same sex marriage? Birth control isnt needed with same sex marriges. Being that Im a gay man I feel strongly for same sex marriage. Im looking to have my relationship to have the same rights as a straight couples thats all.

[adstony]

Well, for 2 years I have had Mirena ( birth control, implanted in the uterus), and I get this nasty feeling that I am destroying my body or something. I would like to have more children and the only reason I use birth control is because of the finicial situation I am in right now. But using birth control I feel like I am not following God's path. Has anyone else felt this way? Or am I just being silly? 

For one thing there is no such thing as being finicially ready for a baby with having 2 I will tell you that.  Also I do know alot of women that feel the same way you do about if you are following God's path you for.  Please make sure to pray about it.  There are signs that will tell you.  My wife had he tubes tied after out second due to all the problems that she had with both pregancies.  She had that feeling that somthing worst would happen and after praying about it came to having that feeling that that would be best for her at this time.  But she is also having the feeling that we should adopt one day.  It is not a silly thing to feel.  The best thing is to do the praying.  Just like it you can try what some people I have know try to do.  Figure out your when you ovulate and do not have sex around that time.  3 friends I know have being tring it.  For 2 of them it is worked for about 2 years now.  The other one well you know if you get too excited you can ovulate at a different time then and now they have a little boy.  But when you ask them they always say God whated us to have one we can only do so much if God knows it's your time nothing can prevent it.

[Falconer02]

I get this nasty feeling that I am destroying my body or something. I would like to have more children and the only reason I use birth control is because of the finicial situation I am in right now. But using birth control I feel like I am not following God's path. Has anyone else felt this way? Or am I just being silly?

"God's Path"? You mean like have a bunch of kids so it sends you to your deathbed 10-20 years quicker? No, you're not being silly at all. If people would look up from that old book made for ancient thinking and focus on reality-- maybe pick up this months National Geographic (having to do with population control), they'd feel beyond silly for having their heads in the sand for so long. People need to understand that the whole "have a ton of kids and spread about the world!" is a BAD idea nowadays. REALLY bad. We can only hold 10 billion people before we're going to be overstressing this planet. We're up to 7 right now and it keeps going up. So, with an aerial viewpoint, you're helping everyone. This aspect includes homosexual couples adopting.

If you decide to have a kid or adopt one, very cool and g4u. Very honorable.

[muush88]

You're bragging about not using birth control?     That's just plain stupid of you!  Of course you will get pregnant if you don't use contraception...unless you have fertility problems, or unless you're lying about your method of sex (doing it anally instead of vaginally).  Ya know, how you told us all how your celibate with your imaginary boyfriend Wayne?

I think it's more of the fact they pull out, is why I never get pregnant.

Wow your having lots of sex and wayne is left spanking the monkey  attagirl

[queenofnines]

I think it's more of the fact they pull out, is why I never get pregnant.

Do NOT take this advice, fellow females!  You can still get pregnant this way!!

[ButterflyWings]

First on the topic of same sex marriages I am all for it and I think E harmony is in the wrong...

Now onto the birth control issue..UGH PULL OUT METHOD ARE YOU SERIOUS?? Wow crazy been there done that thats how I got my first daughter LMAO..Now I did the IUD after my daughter had no issues..it lasted 5 years then I wanted another and had my son..After that I was having issues with second IUD I developed a allergy to copper (this is before they went to plastic or whatever IUD's) So I did Mirena and had no issues and my body was just fine..I had a beautiful baby girl 3 years later..My birth control now is my tubes are tied..I know that 3 beautiful babies were enough and all I could raise correctly and give what they need..So..Protect yourself unwanted pregnancies are a issue and not fair to babies who are born this way..DO NOT USE PULL OUT METHOD THIS IS FOOLISH!!

[adstony]

Here is the funnies was one of my buddies got his girl friend pregnent.  They did forplay and all of that but no insterting.  He cam all over her vigina which more then likely was not the first time.  But she did get pregnent.  He did think that she cheeted on him because he never insterted and she wondered how it happened.  When the baby was born the test came back he was the father.  Docator said that with you play if it does spray in that area that it can get in and have a chance of it.  It was one of these way out there stats that they were given but it happened with them.  

The pull out does not work very well due to there is some that gets out before the guy blows the big amount that he is tring to keep from going in you.  All it takes in one to make it through and there you go a new live starts.

[ElleRich]

so i recently heard that E-Harmony was  being sued for not allowing their customers to choose a same sex search.. How does everyone feel about this> Voice your opinion

My opinion is that the terms of service of EHarmony would have explained the rules.  I am not a member, so I cannot write about this incident and posting firsthand.

[adstony]

so i recently heard that E-Harmony was  being sued for not allowing their customers to choose a same sex search.. How does everyone feel about this> Voice your opinion

My opinion is that the terms of service of EHarmony would have explained the rules.  I am not a member, so I cannot write about this incident and posting firsthand.

There are more sites then just EHarmony out there for looking for relationships.  EHarmony has the right to limit your searchs.  But it should have somthing in the guide lines for the site that tell you that also.  One stat that I have seen only about 20% of people read all the terms, conditions, and rules of anthing that they sign up for.  That is a big shame

[sarah_hollock]

 I was raised in a same sex lifestyle and I would want anything more then if they were able to have marriage or any other thing that everyone else in the world gets to do. Dont get me wrong i am not a person who would walk around downtown holding a poster . I am the one on the side  with a tshirt thatsays  Legalize LGBT

[dreamongirl]

that's not cool. there are so many dating site out there and to sue them is not cool.

[gibsonbrian99]

  :peace:We are just like everyone else all we (gay people) are just looking for love and if that is wrong I don't want to be wrong   And you can take them to civil court for emotional damage

[bschumacher]

A certain percentage of people are born homosexual. It is not their fault. If they find someone to marry, they should do so. I had never known any gays until a lesbian couple moved in next door 20 years ago. They are good neighbors, good parents, and productive members of society. I dare anyone to look down their noses at them! 10 years ago, they married in Quebec. Before they left, I witnessed & signed their marriage papers; I was proud to do so because I wanted them to have the same happiness my husband and I have. I thought it was unjust that back then, they had to travel to Canada when it was so easy for my husband and me to get hitched.