Sleeping with a married man? Who is at fault husband or mistress.

[Graeth]

Slap here and call her a *bleep*.
That should shock some sense into her.

[jayduu1]

Its fasho not the mistress!!!!! If he would'nt have started the game it would not be an issue. Check the playa!

[msdensie24]

I feel a little differently about this. I believe that it is the person in the relationship responsibility not to cheat. Someone on the outside would not have any consideration for your family as long as they are getting what they want. If your friend no longer wants to be in the situation I feel she should just leave it alone. Let the man be the one to confess or live with the dirty secret. Its none of her business because going in knowing he had a wife shows she didnt care then so now that things are not going her way or she isnt satisfied she should make things worse

[angelchef80]

They are both at fault, both adults and should know better. Don't want to be in relationship then get out

[Loltopia]

Both are at fault, you can't blame one party, because both are purposely and consciously participating in infidelity. Well, that's not true -- if the mistress isn't aware that the man is married (since a lot of times this is hidden from them), then they're not at fault, because they had no idea. But otherwise yeah, definitely both of their faults.

[BeccaGoga]

both are at fault. Plain and simple.

[jdunny33]

the husband should be the one to tell his wife.. she should not have to. 

[klvcaudillo]

To add more logs to the fire... My friend (we'll call her Mary) was invited to (we'll call him Jim) Jim's wedding.  She KNEW he was married.  The catch is that they were Best friends and he has been telling Mary that his wife has him cut of (in the bedroom) and that he is almost positive that she is cheating on him!  The wife is gone all the time on business trips and girls nights.  (She works for a dentist.)  Mary wants to know if she should turn Jim in with his wife or just let him be?

[irishlady1970]

It takes 2 to tango, so yes they both are at fault. Shame on them both. If my husband ever cheated on me I would leave the relationship so quick he would miss it if he blinked. If he wants to be with someone else so be it. Life is too short for playing blame games, besides there are plenty more fish in the sea.

[angel379227]

Nobody's at fault so long as they don't get caught.

[trujillo33]

It does take two to have an affair. I believe both know what they are getting themselves into. The married man should know that he is not suppose to be sleeping with other women. The mistress knows he is married so he is off limits!! She should just stop sleeing with the guy and dont tell the wife unless the wife ask!

[JessieKateRose]

To say that just one of them to blame is ridiculous.
Unless the woman didn't know that the man was married, they are both to blame. Period.

[fancyspirit]

They both are at the fault. She already knows that, You have got some solid advice on here from the other post. No relationship that starts with one being married is started with the right intentions. She is just a way he can fell connected with someone that the everyday life problems are attached too. She needs to think what is best for her cause he sure won't. He is proving that by not thinking of what this will do to his wife

[halokitty]

How would she feel if her husband was sleeping with another woman. I assure you she would hate her and blame her just as much as the lieing *bleep*.  Your friend is making herself look pathetic, what does she expect a long term relationship with this guy. Come on if he cheat with her he would cheat on her. My advice is to stop and tell him if he don't tell his wife she will.  The wife deserves to know what her husband is up to.

[Azanne07]

they are BOTH wrong! he shouldnt cheat on his wife and your friend shouldnt sleep with married man