I meant what harm is me believing in God? Why does it bother you guys so much that I believe in God? Christianity is doing no harm. In fact if a person is a Christian they typically live a better, nicer life. They have something to believe in and it makes them feel good. So why do you care? Are you jealous that Christians have something to believe in and you don't? He has answered so many of my prayers as well. I have lived miracles that I know would'nt be possible without a God. I don't pick and choose science either.... I believe the things they have actually proven. Also if it were so true then why do so many scientists not believe the big bang theory? They say it is impossible.
I don't know you in the real world, so I can't make a judgment on if you believing in god is doing any harm. I can't observe your actions and note if your words and behaviors are ill-effecting others because of your belief. But I don't know how you can think adults subscribing to something for the foundation of their lives that is akin to Santa Claus or The Tooth Fairy is harmless.
Would it still be a better, nicer life if a person spent their whole life devoted to something and found out towards the end of their life that it wasn't true? I'm sure more than a few would be pissed and resentful.
Again, I used to be a Christian, so I can perfectly relate to the brainwashed mindset and "having something to believe in". And honestly, occasionally I have thought, "Man, it sure would be easier to still be that blissful and naive" when having to deal with some very hard realities of life being pointless and not having anyone to rely on but myself. But in the end, I'd much rather live my life based on truth, reality, logic, and reason.
Consider what prayers have been answered and ask yourself if those life events could have happened regardless. Why can't god do anything that isn't humanly or naturally possible? That is a big thing I realized when coming away from the Christian fold. You speak of "miracles" that you claim aren't possible without god...well, what are they? If god will do a few things that aren't possible in our world, then I'll believe! Pray about that, okay?
Sometimes we get what we want, sometimes we don't...for believers, when things happen to go their way that is god saying "yes"...if things don't turn out, that is god saying "no"...but in reality, it's just "it is what it is".
"I believe the things they have actually proven." God hasn't been proven. You just got to have faith.
"Also if it were so true then why do so many scientists not believe the big bang theory?" It is the best idea right now, supported by heaps of observable evidence, unlike god. One day there will be enough evidence to confirm yes, X is how it actually happened. Better be ready to rewrite your Bibles then!