Cheating in relationships.

[anguyen21]

Just have an open relationship and don't commit to anyone.  Tell them upfront that you will be dating other people and if they're not ok with it then they don't have to be together.  Plain and simple.

[Longoria11]

cheating is a BIG no no!!! i had 2 friends tell me they were cheating on their Significate other and it made me sooooo mad!!

was i wrong?  but i mean they asked for my opinion so they go it!! might not have been what they wanted but.. oh well!

[mattymatt79]

Cheating is horrible, it destroys trust and shouldn't be done.

Be honest in your relationship and if you don't enjoy it, then leave instead of risking happiness of both people

[BabyMamaBoutique]

It's hard, in general, to find someone you completely trust, and who doesn't mess that up.  Not just in romantic relationships, but in friendships as well. If you find someone like that consider yourself lucky and hold on tight.

[MYKRLuciano]

Well first of all this does not offen me. But I will tell you just because man get caught more often doesnt mean the cheat more. Actually I believe is equal with man and woman. And sometime people just cheat with out a reason. They dont value the relationship and when is too late they are sorry.

[celinesweets]

Most women think that men cheat more because men are assholes.

Most men think that women cheat more because women are bitches.

This thread is now over.

lol this is funny

[Hurricanekiz]

I think its only because people havent grown to know what they really want and arent to sure if they want to be in their relationship.  Sometimes one person is more infatuated with the other. And the other is still searching but dont want to break a heart

[trujillo33]

If they want to cheat they shouldnt be in a relationship in the first place. Both men and women cheat...I think most people stay in relationships because of their kids

[Mojoshog]

I've heard it can be healthy for a relationship. Not sure that's true but I guess every situation is different.

[Azanne07]

Cheating in relationships will not be tolerated in my house.

[sweetmermaid]

I don't deal with cheaters

[syntheticbeauty]

Cheating is wrong I agree, but everyone has their reasons and everyone has their faults. No one is perfect.
 I have been cheated on numerous times
and I have cheated once  " not affair or sexual thing it was my heart belonging to someone else while i was with someone)
I considered that cheating because it was basically lying that my commitment was to one person, but wasn't.


I found this song called 9 crimes the lyrics pretty much state how i felt.

( here are the lyrics)

Leave me out with the waste, this is not what I do
It's the wrong kind of place to be thinking of you
It's the wrong time for somebody new
It's a small crime and I got no excuse
And is that all right, yeah?
I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right, yeah?
If you don't shoot it how am I supposed to hold it?
Is that all right, yeah?
I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right, yeah, with you?
Leave me out with the waste, this is not what I do
It's the wrong kind of place to be cheating on you
It's the wrong time she's pulling me through
It's a small crime and I got no excuse
And is that all right, yeah?
If I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right, yeah?
If you don't shoot it, how am I supposed to hold it?
Is that all right, yeah?
I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right?
Is that all right with you?
Is that all right, yeah?
If I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right, yeah?
If you don't shoot it, how am I supposed to hold it?
Is that all right, yeah?
I give my gun away when it's loaded
Is that all right?
Is that all right with you?
And is that all right, yeah?
Is that all right?
Is that all right?
Is that all right with you?
No?


I am married for a while I was losing my faith in my husband.
He cheated on me while I was pregnant and there was this man who was a friend I spoke to and I fell for,
we both agreed it wasn't right to be together due to my marriage and we parted ways.
I fixed my marriage as well as I could and have been married for 4 1/2 years

[celinesweets]

Cheating is not good, but i think the reason why people cheat is because the other partner stop doing the things he/she use to do  to make each other happy, and alway arguing. We want to talk and you listen at time and it goes both ways.

[2little]

Well in my point of view most women cheat because they're looking for love and there spouse isn't giving it to them
and men cheat because they feel like they can get away with it because they like to try new things