roomates and lies

[countrygirl12]

Welcome back
so as the titile  says  this is going to be quite the topic so let me ask why is it that when we live in the same space as other people why there is always so many problems whether it be your parents,siblings,or even roommates when were adults .

even if we like the idea of living with someone at first and the person is actually cool and yet we all eventually find ourselfs fighting why ?
i feel like i hear these problems everyday and usually the problems are someone is too messy or their all of sudden rude or a buzz kill or ya know in the case of a man and woman being roommate same old thing they start out freinds and than they sleep together and than before you know it someone is actually getting screwed over and kicked out at 5 am  .

they say that humans are not meant to be alone that were just naturally group mamals  and that if were alone and like constant alone time there must be somthing wrong with us but if everyone keeps leaving the group to where you cant help but be alone than what ?

 so  do you think we  as humans are meant to be  alone or should we have a family or group to bond with ?

let me know  in comments
 

Hello!

I think we do need human companionship at some sort of level. If not by having roommates and living with someone else then by other means such as social media, paying companion sites, and even pen pal. It's no surprise that having roommates can be difficult. People lie, cheat, and are un-loyal that is part of life unfortunately nonetheless like everything else we have to do the best that we can.


Fillfran82

That is all well and good if the person is honest. But if you are being played and lied to and you don't know it then you hit an even lower low when you finally figure it out.

[tantricia44]

I prefer to live alone but if I must have a roomie,  he/she must pay the rent on time, no getting involved romantically, no bringing your dates in for a quicky & know when to give each other space when needed.

[shawnix]

I'm good with living alone. I had roommates before I did not enjoy it at all.

[mrisha]

Welcome back
so as the titile  says  this is going to be quite the topic so let me ask why is it that when we live in the same space as other people why there is always so many problems whether it be your parents,siblings,or even roommates when were adults .

even if we like the idea of living with someone at first and the person is actually cool and yet we all eventually find ourselfs fighting why ?
i feel like i hear these problems everyday and usually the problems are someone is too messy or their all of sudden rude or a buzz kill or ya know in the case of a man and woman being roommate same old thing they start out freinds and than they sleep together and than before you know it someone is actually getting screwed over and kicked out at 5 am  .

they say that humans are not meant to be alone that were just naturally group mamals  and that if were alone and like constant alone time there must be somthing wrong with us but if everyone keeps leaving the group to where you cant help but be alone than what ?

 so  do you think we  as humans are meant to be  alone or should we have a family or group to bond with ?

let me know  in comments
 

This post was so confusing and all over the place.  Did you not learn how to capitalize the start of a sentence when you were in school?  Stop running sentences together.  Stop using words that sound good in your head, but is wrong.  This is just a soft suggestion.

[ancmetro]

   No roommates, please!
   When I was a student I had many roommates at my dormitory/apartment.
   Some were nice...very nice.
   Others were rude, lazy...just impossible to live with!
   Few did not want to pay rent. Leaving the rest of us to pay the rent.

[JaniceSW]

At this point in my life, I live alone.  I really rather like it that way.  If you were to have a roommate, it is best to write a contract between the two of you and both sign it.  Everything needs to be spelled out, from finances to cleaning to having company/pets.  That way, people can be held accountable if it gets to that.
I think we do need human companionship.  It is not natural to be entirely alone.  However, why do you think so many marriages fail.  Unrealistic expectations in some instances.  The thing about being alone is that some people are more tolerant of it than others.  I've known people that say they never want to live alone.  Couldn't stand it!  Actually, I enjoy my alone time, but only for 4-5 days at a time.  Then I seek out companionship.

[debidoo]

Well the bible says "it is not good for man to be alone" but I see your point - even with marriage I was married 34 years until my husband died and I loved him but it was kind of a lot of trauma and drama.  Now one of my grown sons lives with me and whew don't get me started on that LOL. I am alone a lot of the time and I am lonely sometimes but I think its better than the alternatives most of the time.  I have a spare room and could use the extra money but I am not up for putting up with someone's difficulties.

[santa7]

Have had good and bad.

[santa7]

The latest worked out well. 

[mardukblood2009]

I think people like to be with other people because they don't feel weird. Anytime someone lives alone or does something alone they are always looked down upon. I think that is why people often do things or live with someone so they can fit in in more ways than one.

[bremer51]

 I've had roommates who became lifelong friends and I've had roommates I couldn't wait to get away from.  And I've lived alone, which I actually enjoyed.  I still think that human companionship is necessary to live a happy life.

[braggin]

I think having people to live with is just great provided you don't have to stay in the same room together. Better to get a house, apt. or dorm where each person gets their own room if you can.

[snuggleycutejc]

well we shouldn't go crazy being alone or if you have a total group always there.

[santa7]

The latest one turned out pretty good.

Have had bad and good ones.  Forrest Gump said "Like opening a box of Chocolates.  Never know what you're going to get.

[countrygirl12]

I'm good with living alone. I had roommates before I did not enjoy it at all.

I have never had a "room mate".  I do not think that would ever work out for me.