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camellia0

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When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« on: March 15, 2018, 10:19:07 pm »
Most people come to me for financial help. I am not rich, but I know how to hustle and make extra cash that I put in savings.

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #1 on: March 16, 2018, 12:04:05 am »
For some reason  ppl come to me looking for pills but I don't sell them,I'm strictly a crack dealer,don't know how the confusion started,but the thing about  druggies id that they're easy to convert.                                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                                     
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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #2 on: March 16, 2018, 06:36:31 am »
Was  MONEY , money AND MORE MONEY !  >:( >:( >:(  And I've never been paid back a cent and i'm now the jerk rotten friend, so i lost twice , my cash and a so called friend.  If I was paid right now all the money I have helped people with I'd be able to Buy a house, and pay cash for it.

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #3 on: March 16, 2018, 10:35:04 am »
No one comes to me for help but there was a day - my sister used to want money all the time as she was a drug addict.  Her and my brother always wanted money from my mother but since she died in 2010 I don't know where they get their "help" from.  Sad I haven't seen them since she passed because they know I am not giving them anything.  We all got equal amounts of inheritance so I guess they have figured out how to take care of themselves.  My sons both work and take care of themselves. 

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #4 on: March 16, 2018, 11:17:00 am »
Most who come to me for help it's for a ear to listen.   Everyone knows we don't have extra money so no one (except our son) has ever asked for that but folks do come to us just to listen.   I have no problem being that kind of friend.

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #5 on: March 16, 2018, 11:18:41 am »
Usually car problems because they don't keep them up like they should.... :sad1: :silly:

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #6 on: March 16, 2018, 11:30:53 am »
Most who come to me for help it's for a ear to listen.   Everyone knows we don't have extra money so no one (except our son) has ever asked for that but folks do come to us just to listen.   I have no problem being that kind of friend.

The world needs more of your type... most everyone has no time to listen any more.

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #7 on: March 16, 2018, 06:26:55 pm »
Yeah, I think you are in the majority.  Most people come for financial help and I am far, far, from wealthy.  Hence my presence on here!

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #8 on: March 16, 2018, 10:11:28 pm »

     They usually ask me for money...money that I simply do not have!

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #9 on: March 17, 2018, 08:37:29 am »
I have lent money to family members in need. I also am a shoulder to lean on and have given many advice only.

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #10 on: March 17, 2018, 09:05:20 am »
Usually advice and emotional support.  I've helped family members with financial problems as well.

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #11 on: March 17, 2018, 09:32:12 am »
Answers to their question.

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #12 on: March 17, 2018, 10:42:29 am »
I get a lot of questions about computer problems. Most of the time I don't have the answers but I try to help when I can.

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Re: When people come to you for help, what do they usually need?
« Reply #13 on: March 19, 2018, 10:09:49 am »
People usually want advice, money, or a ride somewhere. The advice, and rides are fine, but I stopped lending money because some people forget it's a LOAN and I really don't have money to simply give away.

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