Honest Advice Needed!

[mrisha]

Since you are an adult and making your own decisions, just tell your parents what you plan to do.  I am sure they will be upset, but it is your life to do as you please.  Since your connection is long distance, have you spent enough time with this man to know who he really is?  It may take some time for your parents to accept your decision, but know that they love you and when they get upset be understanding because they don't really know this man you love.

[oldbuddy]

And if sex is all they care about then they are not worth keeping around any way.

How would you know what they care about if they are not willing to make a commitment?

[bowrunner]

Since you don't intend to marry him, just tell your family you're moving, going to live with him and that's that.  It's not a good arrangement but it's your choice.  I hope you don't regret it.