men

[vg7405]

My experiences with men have been horrible, so my perspective may be somewhat prejudicial. I am only speaking from personal experience, but I do not think that most men know what they want. They say one thing (i.e., a serious relationship, marriage), but they mean something totally different when you actually get to know and meet them (i.e., an intimate encounter). I know exactly what I want and do not deviate from it. This is why I get a little heated when I hear men stating that women play too many games. It is a two-way street. Men are just as guilty of it as women are.

[bremer51]

People just want to have fun.  If he doesn't ask you out, he's probably not in the market for a girlfriend.  Life is short. If you like him, ask him out on a date. 

[holmesch22]

I do not know the answer about men and why they do what they do

[inertia4]

Some men might be somewhat embarrassed or shy. I know most men want to try and act cool and tough. But they are like women when it comes to feeling shy.

[gaby_ro_2004]

Maybe they are shy,afraid or married.

[mrisha]

Men flirt when they like the look of a person, but then so do women.  We all flirt.  There are boundaries to never cross.  The problem is you never flirt with another person if you are with someone else.

[patapon555]

Enough of gender roles. I'm tired of girls thinking guys should make the first move.

[darkxtsuna]

Well for one thing I am shy as hell when it comes to asking a girl out but just casually talking its a no brainier just to see her smile.

[sherryinutah]

Some men are testing you to see if you will flirt back.  If you flirt back, they might assume that you're interested in something more than a friendship.  It's an opportunity for some guys to score some free sex.

If they ask you out they're in a vulnerable position.  They might be rejected or they might have to spend some money on the experience of taking you out. 

I like developing a friendship and the ability to communicate with each other first; no spending and no sex.  It never hurts to be patient and give each other some time.

 

[ancmetro]

     Some men are just "in love with love"...just leave them alone. Do not break their hearts...because just like us they have feelings too.