Living situation

[king4cash]

I think that we all have choices to make, when it comes to family, but sometimes family causes more problems...

[paynesponies]

Go for it!

[squirrelgirl44]

I actually totally understand. After my sister got a divorce (7 years ago) she had to file bankruptcy and foreclosed on her house. She asked if she could live with me until she was able to rent again (it's next to impossible to rent within 2 years after bankruptcy). 7 years later, she now has a daughter and her daughter and mine don't get along. It's awful. I want to kick her out, sell the house and move into an apartment

[JaniceSW]

Without knowing the exact situation, I would say to try calling a family meeting and have your emotions under control and your thoughts in order.  Write down your points if you have to.  Sometimes people have to hear the problems spelled out and how frustrating they are to you.  Have a list of possible solutions when and where you can.  However, sometimes you have to draw boundaries and have consequences.

[madeara]

I would try resolving the issues before leaving.  Family is a blessing and a  wonderful support.  I wish you all the best.  I hope you can work out the differences.

[bremer51]

Is your husband causing your stress or mainly your daughter and grandson.  Maybe its time they find their own home so you and your husband can live your own lives.  Without knowing all the details of your relationships, its hard to know the right answer.

[nannycoe1]

Thank you all for your concerns.

[teresa3200]

I do think talking is the first step and then make the decision.