Ok now WHY?

[cateyes1]

Granted my boyfriend has not been feeling to good lately and out of work for the past week. Today is his first day back to work so I tell him to be careful and it is like ya ya ya  (snaps at me) I am the type who loves to love and show compassion to the ones that matter to me. but WHY does others seem soooooooo annoyed by ones concern  I would absolutely LOVE it if someone cared about me as much  ...I have so much love to give and so much caring to show and I just hate it when I feel as tho I need to stifle myself  ...anyone out there want a loving caring compassionate girlfriend (let me know) lol

[sarabtrayior]

There are those of us who are like you but are never recognized for it and that is frustrating to me and maybe you too...

[cateyes1]

There are those of us who are like you but are never recognized for it and that is frustrating to me and maybe you too...

Hi, yes it is VERY frustrating to me!!!!!!!!!!

[bremer51]

He's a man who hasn't been his normal manly-self for a week.  Maybe fussing over him, makes him feel even less manly.  On the other hand, I would never presume to understand the ways of the male mind.

[cateyes1]

He's a man who hasn't been his normal manly-self for a week.  Maybe fussing over him, makes him feel even less manly.  On the other hand, I would never presume to understand the ways of the male mind.

That could very well be yet it is still so frustrating...like, pardon me for caring ugh...MEN, ya can't live with em and ya can't live without em ...hmmmm or can we lol

[vp44]

Granted my boyfriend has not been feeling to good lately and out of work for the past week. Today is his first day back to work so I tell him to be careful and it is like ya ya ya  (snaps at me) I am the type who loves to love and show compassion to the ones that matter to me. but WHY does others seem soooooooo annoyed by ones concern  I would absolutely LOVE it if someone cared about me as much  ...I have so much love to give and so much caring to show and I just hate it when I feel as tho I need to stifle myself  ...anyone out there want a loving caring compassionate girlfriend (let me know) lol

Have you ever thought to just think about yourself?

[cateyes1]

Granted my boyfriend has not been feeling to good lately and out of work for the past week. Today is his first day back to work so I tell him to be careful and it is like ya ya ya  (snaps at me) I am the type who loves to love and show compassion to the ones that matter to me. but WHY does others seem soooooooo annoyed by ones concern  I would absolutely LOVE it if someone cared about me as much  ...I have so much love to give and so much caring to show and I just hate it when I feel as tho I need to stifle myself  ...anyone out there want a loving caring compassionate girlfriend (let me know) lol

Have you ever thought to just think about yourself?

Actually NO, that just isn't me, but maybe I should start to 

[claysherrod]

Not all men are like this. I'm a man, for one, who would love to be loved like that. Unfortunately, my experiences of the past just didn't live up to that. I can relate, as a man, to the ability of wanting to deeply love the ones you care about, whether romantic, friends, whatever, and not quite getting that back in return. It sucks, but unfortunately that is how most of the world is. Yet, I cannot be anything than what I truly am, so I say keep being who you are. Maybe he'll snap out of it eventually and appreciate everything you do for him.

[cateyes1]

Not all men are like this. I'm a man, for one, who would love to be loved like that. Unfortunately, my experiences of the past just didn't live up to that. I can relate, as a man, to the ability of wanting to deeply love the ones you care about, whether romantic, friends, whatever, and not quite getting that back in return. It sucks, but unfortunately that is how most of the world is. Yet, I cannot be anything than what I truly am, so I say keep being who you are. Maybe he'll snap out of it eventually and appreciate everything you do for him.

Hi Clay, first off welcome to FC  ............before I leave this earth I so want to feel the love from someone that I give to him. don't get me wrong he does allot for me as well but sometimes I feel for him it is more of a chore. oh believe you me I will NEVER change...maybe some day I'll find the same!!

[ushaann]

yea some people are like that only they don't understand true love