The question was hard to understand. It sounds like you were questioning guys marrying guys? If that is the case I say to each his own. I won't stand against another person's choice in partners and/or happiness. Different strokes for different folks. It wouldn't be my choice because I am a man who loves women...my wife in particular. I wouldn't think of being with a man in a sexual manner...the lifestyle isn't for me. It does seem, to me, that same sex relationships feel more compelled to show public displays of affection. Over generalization or not I don't think that affection needs to be shown in public regardless of your partner's sexual preference.