Marriage

[dreamyxo]

No I wouldn't.  I couldn't trust them and I sure as hell ain't gonna sleep with them ever again.

[mardukblood2009]

NO!!!!!!!! CHEATERS ARE CHEATERS AND THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE.

[maxinmotion]

It really depends on your situation. I've never been married but I was in a relationship for 12 years. We had two children together and I thought we were a match made in heaven. Until he decided he wanted to change his belief system and almost demanded that I changed mine. I left him for a lot of reasons, and non of them was because of another woman.

I do believe that I would have left if it was another woman involved. Wrong is wrong and cheaters are cheaters.

[jenniferhoder]

Unless you are put in the situation, you have NO idea what you do. I have friends that say they would NEVER stay to work it out, but then were placed in that situation, and they DID stay and work it out.
IF you decide to stay, you have to be willing to REALLY work at it. Getting over someone cheating on you is NOT an easy thing.
It takes time, even YEARS to forgive and forget. The trust that you once had, you have no longer.

[dwggs]

I can only go from past experience from a former boyfriend.

Once I found out he was cheating ... things were never the same.

I kept trying to make the relationship work but in the end I came
to understand that a leopard doesn't change his spots & I finally
ended it after wasting years of my time.

Won't do that ever again.

[goofysw2002]

I would have to say it depends on the circumstance, I my husband cheated on me I don't know what i'd do, I  think we would talk it out first and then go from there.

[revkrob]

I gave it a good, decent, honest shot. I found that trust was vital, and once that was gone, so was our marriage.

Best of luck to you.

[MessiahMews]

No I wouldn't.  I couldn't trust them and I sure as hell ain't gonna sleep with them ever again.

Ditto.   Who knows what cooties were caught in the cheating relationship.