kids

[AreletiaG]

what if you found out the person you are with had 6 kids by another women and you didnt have any by him

[jstein2]

I would wonder if he pays child support for all these kids. If he doesn't and you have child with him someday and he decides to take off, would he support the child?

[loulizlee]

I would wonder why I was staying with him.

[ssmsurvey]

Plenty of people these days have had previous relationships. Why would it matter if he has kids from a previous relationship? Unless he is saying he doesn't want more kids when you do, then that could be a problem.

[cford6]

It wouldn't bother me unless the man a had a child by several different women then I would start to wonder if he would take care of the new one he makes or run off. But everyone has had a previous relationship at one time or another and there are children that are bound to be from those relationships.