kids hurting you?

[pjlicari17]

Hitting is a bad thing from ANY child.  As far as us adults, there is a difference from 'hitting' and 'spanking' however.  There is nothing wrong with a "spanking".  I don't think there anyplace for hitting, but occationally kids need to be spanked.

[Marchhare80]

I thought I'd add my own perspective on this subject, and thanks for listening. Children need to be taught at a young age the difference between playing and being gentle. There are many good reasons children need to be gentle under different circumstances. Why don't you try having your young ones around a kitten for awhile? Don't allow any touch that is not gentle, and they can work up to holding it. Older kids could benefit from a few trips to the local hospital or nursing home(call and explain in advance) to drive home the importance of indoor voices and calm behavior. This can also be a great opportunity to volunteer, and impress on your children the importance of giving of themselves to those less fortunate or able. My children get involved with the Special Olympics, and not ONE of them would ever consider hurting or bullying anyone!! I am so proud of them! Sometimes all kids need are a reason bigger than themselves and fear of discipline from you.