It's so annoying

[BK_Adores_Chase]

when my fiance randomly humps me -- like while I'm cooking or doing dishes, times when I OBVIOUSLY can't do what he's hinting at -- hello, especially when our 7 month old is awake, I'm not going to just leave her downstairs by herself.  Or when he's a super huge jerk to me and then proceeds to grab me in certain places...what makes him think he can be a jerk to me and still fondle me??!!!!

[MAparicio2968]

when my fiance randomly humps me -- like while I'm cooking or doing dishes, times when I OBVIOUSLY can't do what he's hinting at -- hello, especially when our 7 month old is awake, I'm not going to just leave her downstairs by herself.  Or when he's a super huge jerk to me and then proceeds to grab me in certain places...what makes him think he can be a jerk to me and still fondle me??!!!!

I've read both of ur posts & he sounds like an old bf I had.  In my situation, he didn't really get the hint when I ignored his behavior & with time became aggressive which led to me getting a protection order.  I would suggest talking to him & letting him know that u want him to respect u more & stop being so manipulative.  If that doesn't work, then maybe think about moving on ... I realize u have a child together but u have to think about ur well-being & safety first in order to properly take care of ur baby!!!  Being a single parent is not easy but can be done .... I've been there & done it twice .... my oldest started college this yr!!  Dunno if any of this helped u, but I wish u the best .. if u wanna talk some more .. I'm here!!!  Take care!!!

[briannajeanxo]

my ex was the same way, it was super annoying. especially when i HATE being bothered while doing dishes because i get so deep in thought

[dreamyxo]

That's very disrespectful.

[Sunshine4372]

Sadly I think that is a lot of men.  I don't know if they think there "thing" will fall off if they don't use it. Every couple should have to change roles for a day or two, so they can understand that there are commitments to be met around the house, especially have a child is involved. 

[donnitab]

Yes, that can be very annoying.

[animikokala]

If you've told him not to and he still does it, then by legal definition he's sexually assaulting you.  If you haven't told him not to do it, then tell him.  Move away/pull away from him whenever he does it; if he persists, then he's the type of person who might do worse one day, and not worth staying around.

[BK_Adores_Chase]

Sadly I think that is a lot of men.  I don't know if they think there "thing" will fall off if they don't use it. Every couple should have to change roles for a day or two, so they can understand that there are commitments to be met around the house, especially have a child is involved. 

I KNOW -- but unfortunately that will never happen and I think the only way he will realize how awesome I am is if we split up or I die before him!!

[sarabtrayior]

Unfortunately, life can be very annoying and therefore, people can be annoying whether it's sexual or not.

[mrisha]

Did your Fiance' jump you like that before the baby was born?  When he started this why didn't  you stop it the first time.  I know you probably thought it was romantic that he wanted you but at some point the man (hound dog) has to realize that you deserve respect and the response isn't there anymore.