have you ever had a day that seems to go from good to bad

[aggie49]

i do but today is even worse i had to take my finace to the er he messed his back up bad and i feel so bad because he was helping me clean when he did it i know he doesn't blame me but i blame me

[acurtsinger2]

when housework throws your back out you probably need to do a little more excercise.

[aggie49]

normally i would agree but at our age we do what we can i am going to be 51 in a month and my man is 49

[hicaniplay]

Although I feel sorry for you and your fiance, I don't really think you can blame yourself, the cleaning surly benefits him as well?




For the question, here's some personal drama, do feel free to ignore it.
Yesterday was my mother's birthday.
My brother and I stayed over and up late watching movies, my mom went in the other room playing on her computer. My brother also decided to start drinking.
He does have problems in his life, so I don't blame him, but having him turn the conversation abruptly to religion (I should have left then, I admit to being a bit antagonizing and should have recognized the error a lot sooner), pull a gun on me and tell me he's going to "teach me about god", berate and push our mother down, break a window, and end the night running from the cops and being tasered certainly turned what was originally a fun night into quite a terrible one.