okay I'm gay who else is gay and is there a problem with it

[nascarhatter]

I am not gay myself, but I have some friends who are gay, and I think it's a wonderful thing. I don't really see a difference between straight relationships and gay relationships. I don't think that a relationship should be about that. It should be about if you love, care and honor the person you are with. What does gender have to do with loving someone or caring for someone? NOTHING! If you love someone of the same sex more power to you!!

[blondie71]

I am not gay, I don't have a problem with people who are gay but I don't agree with it. Because I am a christian and the bible say man should not lay with man, which includes women to.  But I don't down grade others because everyone believes differently.  I have a neighbor who is gay and I get along with him just fine.  When he needs help with something we help and when I need a ride he gives me a ride so to me people have a right to decide for themselves what they want in life and it is not anyone else decision so god gave us free will.

[krystlechocker]

Im not gay and nor do i have a problem with it. What i do have a problem with is gay ppl thinking its okay to sleep with dozens of ppl and going on to the next person. My friend does this and i think its very wrong.

[blondie71]

I agree that is wrong but straight people do that to.  I think a relationship should be between two people and not just sleeping around.  Doesn't matter who you are a relationship to me means a future together and I personally don't want to be with anyone who sleeps around because of all the diseases that are out their.  I am happily married now for 10 years and I have a wonderful husband who would protect me to the end of the earth.  He brings me coffee in bed, he cooks for me and cleans the house, he isn't to good with doing laundry or cleaning the bathroom but he gives it his best so we share household duties.  Don't get me wrong we have our little spats but it is usually has to do with my side of the family or his side of the family.  We are always having to help our siblings and it gets stressful sometimes.

[lgemini]

Why should people have problem with you being gay?  You pay taxes like everybody.   I feel sorry for people who  put others down because they are different.  If we look real hard we are more alike than different. .

[blondie71]

I agree we all participte in this world and I don't like it when people are judged without getting to know that person.  Everyone has their own personilities and it should not matter what religion race sexuality ect you are.  I think people in general jump to conclusions and should  evaluate more.  People need to take others feelings into consideration before they speak and gossip about others.  I like all sorts of people my problem is I don't like being in big crowds and I don't know why. 

[cowgirlx]

I agree,  There is no difference.  I have one friend, who is gay, that had to go to the Philippines to get a baby.  But he is the greatest dad ever.  He even puts my husband to shame,  and he is a good dad.  My friend is just so happy to have this baby that he dotes on it and it is definitely well loved

[arsam1234]

I'm not gay. I don't have a problem with it but I don't think gays should have PDA.

[HuffmanFamilyof4]

why do you people say "i don't have a problem with it" then slam the hell out of them, although i'm not gay I think they should have rights just like everyone else. I have friends that are gay and I can't tell they are,the only reason I know they are it's because they told me, I don't like them any less because they are. their people just like everyone else so..leave them alone!!!Sheesh

[kelseybre09]

I am gay, I live with my girlfriend and I truly believe that it is okay. Out of the few guys that I dated I was never once loved as much
as I am loved by her. Our relationship is true and honest and she is truly my best friend. Relationships are suppose to be just that and
with someone who will always be there for you and support you. If you ever need anyone to talk to feel free to talk to me.

[Storm61115]

i have noproblem wit u being gay. some people like gay *bleep* and they get off on it.

[fbongo]

I don't think people that are gay or bi can help it. They are born this way. I have no issues with it.

Sorry, but people are not born gay. People are born in the image and likeness of God as either male or female with that sexuality within their makeup.. It is a choice they make as to what sexual preference they want to keep or change. I don't have a problem with gay people (as people in general go) I just don't agree with the lifestyle they practice.   

As far as research goes, there is evidence that people are born gay. On a common sense level, why would people choose to be part of a minority group that is harrassed, insulted, attacked, discriminated against, and even killed? If sexuality was a choice, I don't think anyone would choose to be gay. Why would you want to make life harder than it already is?

[AL6709]

Who cares.  Why do people feel the need to always go around advertising it.  What you do in the bedroom is your business I don't have to hear about it.  I don't go around shouting hey I'm heterosexual get used to it.  I don't wear a T shirt saying heterosexual pride.  I don't post on message boards saying I'm heterosexual and proud of it.  Why do people have to make a big deal about it?

I think people make such a big deal about it because there are blatant inequalities in today's laws and culture regarding the issue of sexuality. Besides, being proud of your sexuality, I suppose, is a way of saying that you accept yourself and your differences from other people. At least, that's how I view it.

[ilovedika]

its no big deal being gay being gay is a girls best firend they are so nice and compassionate!
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[patycake56]

we are all humans and thats just the way god made us all  so what difference does it make if you are gay or straight.