God wants the best for us, His Will is the best for us. When we let go and let God, His will starts falling into place. We will begin to see the blessings instead of the disasters. Our eyes become clouded when the devil gets us focused on all the bad things around us, that way he gets us off of our main purpose and that is God. Our desire should be for God. Then all of the other things fall into place, it is like trying to put the middle man in there when the middle man is not needed.
Ask yourself, if you fell dead suddenly, would my list change?
If I lost my spouse suddenly, or one of my kids, tragic as it sounds, would some of my hopes fall to the backburner?
We all want things, like a home, a job, a car, and of course to be thin, me I have been struggling with this as well. But we got to be thankful we are not without food. God does provide for us. I think sometimes we look at other people and think we want what they have, but God made us unique with a kind heart, one that should be nourished and filled with Love on a daily basis, and guess what the good News is, He provides that for us, just like He will provide everything else, in His Plan, in His Time and not our own. We are just humans, we don't have that full understanding yet, but we will Soon, we will soon know why the wait was worth waiting!!!