My Fiance is the Reason

[BK_Adores_Chase]

I started working out.  We were watching this singer on youtube, and he was so impressed with her singing, and I was jealous (weird, I know) and I started thinking how I don't really have any talents.  I'm busy, but I wondered what I could start to do as an accomplishment or whatever - and I started working out ever since then.  Then, one day I was talking about it and he said, "You don't even work out that hard" so the next day I pushed myself to my limits.  He encourages me to work out without even knowing it.  I downloaded the song that lady was singing to my ipod and added it to my workout playlist to remind myself of that day and why I should keep working out (I never want to work out but once I get started my playlist is AWESOME and makes you want to dance, so I get into it).

[dawn21207]

Have you talked to him about how you feel?

[EAngels]

Communication is base of any relationship to grow and eventually be mature later on. You must tell him how you feel.

[diala84]

He sounds like kind of a jerk. If you want to work out that is something for you to decide it is not something any person should make you do. I would talk to him about how you feel. If he doesn't understand I would bet you can find a much better guy out there who does.

[mrisha]

Why are you killing yourself for a jerk like that.  Why can't he accept you as you are.  Didn't your fiancee' like you as you were when you met.  What's next-if he doesn't like some other body part, are you going to be stupid enough to do it just to satisfy and keep a jerk like that.  Give it some thought and have a talk with your fiancee' before the marriage. 

[BK_Adores_Chase]

No, I'm not mad - he didn't tell me to work out, but when I saw the way he was impressed with this lady's singing it made me want to do something with my life (besides working and being Mom).

[syncflame]

your guy dont know how lucky he is keep up the good work! working out has a lot of benefits. decrease heart disease , weight lost , longevity, better in bed if you know what i mean^^ also a big one for me STRESS RELIEF! so yeah cudos to you for staying fit

[BK_Adores_Chase]

yeah sometimes it sucks while I'm doing it, but if I do my very best I feel amazing and accomplished afterwards - I try to thing of the long term benefits - sure, health wise, but what I'm really looking forward to is THE BODY in the end haha.

[careykln]

You cant do anything for anyone else you have to do it for you and when you do it for you trust me you feel so much better.