How do you know if you're gay or bi-sexual or neither?

[Kiki1992]

I'm curious. How would someone know if they're straight gay or just bi-sexual?

[mrstina08]

I believe people choose what they want to become or look like. Do you make your own decisions?

[JessieKateRose]

Well, you'd kind of just know which gender you were sexually attracted to after a while.

@mrstina08: There is tons of scientific evidence that supports that gays and lesbians are born gays and lesbians and do not choose to be. Unless they can choose what shape to make their brain and unless dolphins and other animals also just "choose" to be gay, ignoring their instincts... You know.

And why would anyone choose to be gay? By that logic, every day people all over the world are choosing to be persecuted. Makes sense why they would choose to like something that could cause a police officer to shove a gun in their anus and shoot them. (happens in some countries if they find out you're gay)

I mean really, can you "choose" to like something? I can't decide I like pickles and like them. I just don't like pickles.

[willow80834]

I think for some its genetics and others its a choice....   You would know from that butterfly thing going on  to well whoever and seriously are you turned on male or female.... You would think by the time you reached this stage you would know what um got u excited

[syncflame]

if they tell you. duh! but who cares unless your scared of them

[Graeth]

Probably just by looking at how they feel, whom they are attracted to and what side of the fence they are on to begin with.

[longleggedgiraffe]

Anyone is entitled to thier own opinions. This world didnt get to have so many people in it cause God created people gay. I think it's a total choice. I guess it depends on how you have been raised and taught. I was brought up in a Christian home and was raised to believe that gays or lesbians were choosing to be that way. Personally I think it's gross. Especially when they want to have children. Its obviously unatural for 2 woman or 2 men to have a baby when they have to go outside for help and cant do it themselves.

[JessieKateRose]

Anyone is entitled to thier own opinions. This world didnt get to have so many people in it cause God created people gay. I think it's a total choice. I guess it depends on how you have been raised and taught. I was brought up in a Christian home and was raised to believe that gays or lesbians were choosing to be that way. Personally I think it's gross. Especially when they want to have children. Its obviously unatural for 2 woman or 2 men to have a baby when they have to go outside for help and cant do it themselves.

It would be fine if you had a point that made sense, but that doesn't. : If God created all the people, he could easily have created some gay and most straight and there would still be plenty of people. That just doesn't make any sense at all.
Some straight couples have to go for outside help to get children. Is that gross as well?

[bretay]

My husband believes they were made that way.Me I choose to believe it's their choice.You choose your own life.But there are alot of people who have more of the opposite hormones,so who knows.I don't believe in it,but that's my choice.They respect me and I respect them.