My friend's boyfriend watches xxx movies to get turned on

[nisha1010]

My friend is going out with this guy but he is always touching his crouch.  She doesn't like it at all - she went out with him only a few times  - she says he watches dirty movies to turn himself on - I dont think he will be a good partner for her because if he needs xxx movies to turn himself on, he will always need to watch a movie before they are together in bed.  He should get turned on just because she is with him.

[mh874892]

I agree that this doesn't seem like a healthy start to a relationship. The way you worded it, it seems like an addiction!

[batman33]

He's a blatant sex addict! She needs to cut him off and just move on because he's never gonna change without some professional help!

[queenofnines]

I see logical fallacies in your last two sentences...

[Azanne07]

i can see that as a problem. i dont mind if my bf watches xxx movies. but he dont need them to get it up

[ButterflyWings]

I see this a sign of a not so good relationship..he has issues I think..I mean as a thing together as partners I see no issue but as a thing you need before and your other half does not like it seems gross and a little odd..LOL

[noossab77]

?? And this is your problem... Why? If that's what people want, let it be.

[Flackle]

So... Where's the debate? If your friend's boyfriend enjoys watching pornographic media then all the power to him. He has the full right to enjoy watching anything he wants too as long as what he watches didn't harm another individual (then its evidence.) And if your friend isn't comfortable with her partner watching said material then she should simply stop being his partner if its really that much of a problem. Otherwise she should either deal with it or let her partner know how she felt (and if he ignores her then go back to my earlier suggestion). The only problem I see here is that her friend went on the Internet to talk about her personal life to complete strangers.

[chadw97]

She probably should not be going out with him then. Especially, if she is looking for someone that she wants to get into a long term relationship with.

[mlhnceh]

So... Where's the debate? If your friend's boyfriend enjoys watching pornographic media then all the power to him. He has the full right to enjoy watching anything he wants too as long as what he watches didn't harm another individual (then its evidence.) And if your friend isn't comfortable with her partner watching said material then she should simply stop being his partner if its really that much of a problem. Otherwise she should either deal with it or let her partner know how she felt (and if he ignores her then go back to my earlier suggestion). The only problem I see here is that her friend went on the Internet to talk about her personal life to complete strangers.

I agree...I know people like to discuss personal topics, but is this your topic to discuss?  Would your friend want you to tell anyone and everyone about this?

[jordandog]

I agree, this is really NOT your business. There is also a running joke among psychiatrists and counselors about people who bring up problems and say "My friend has this (insert whatever) 'problem'..... The so-called 'friend' is usually the person who is asking about it. Sooo, is it possibly the OP's guy doing this?

[PJones6]

lol...interesting posts and replies..it does seem a little strange but if she doesnt like it she should leave him alone..I know you may be concerned for your friend if that is the situation, but she has to make her own decisions.