how do you feel about debeat parents?

[Nisha2006]

    THE WAY I FE ABOUT DEADBEAT PARENTS IS THAT IT HURT ME TO MY HEART IF YOU FELT LIKE YOU WAS GOING TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD OR KIDS THEN WHY HAVE THEM. SOME PARENTS DONT REALIZE THAT KIDS ISNT CHEAP.

[lynnc35]

This works so many ways, what about parents that call family services on you constantly, or people that get mad at you, because you don't want them in your house because they are drunk, and they find the child abuse hotline, because they are just haters. What about a woman that cheats on her husband, then kicks him out, and sues him for child support not letting him see his kids.
Then there are the dead beat ones, that want to make babies, but not get a job, and they go around making babies everywhere, not caring about them kids. Everything works both ways. By the way, sometimes the woman or it could be a man, kicks the other out, so they can sit back collect a check from welfare, collect a child support check and live off the government. Heck, sometimes, then they get a boyfriend or girlfriend and support them more with that support check than the kids. This is not a One Way street is all I am saying.

[thetotalfool]

I have so many friends who suffered as children because their parents just didn't care most of the time.  People should put their kids up for adoption if they don't really want them.   

[girlswin2]

For most people that have them its so they can have the title of Mother or Father but could care less about them.  Those are the ones I could take out to the wood shed for a few moments.  Most use them for the money they get from the government.  I have no feeling for people like that.  Children are a gift not everyone can have them.

 

[sflynt]

either way it goes, It makes me sick. 

[AmyTrivitt]

You know you have to have a license to drive, get married, get a loan, ect. ect. why not when having children?? I know it would be a huge step for our government to get involved but seriously it would help with welfare, neglected children, and so on. I wish people would think things through before having children just for trophies. My biological parents were like this, let me go at a young age to live with a man in hes 30's. LONG LONG story. But when I finally woke up and realized their was more to life than what I was used too, I straightened my life up and made a name for myself in the community I live in. Yes my biological parents have tried to contact me but I have no feelings what so ever for them, call me selfish but nobody ever needs to be pawned off because you cannot handle a child. They made their choice and I made my life mine!!

[jtkrhk]

some people just shouldn't be allowed to have kids!!!