money or no money

[misnertracy]

Do you love someone for the money or no money? I personally don't care if my man has money or not. I am with him for love. We are broke and both live paycheck to paycheck. I am asking because my best friend married a guy she not in love with. HE HAS LOADS OF MONEY... I don't think you can be happy forever. What you think?? 

[money7586]

That sounds' good but we live in a world where just about eveyone is materialistic and unfortunatly not having the things that you need or even want puts a lot of strain on a relationship

[ODOMS6598]

my man is on disability, so u know i dont love him for his money   lol

[Hmarcum1]

I don't love Garrett for his money, but I'm not sure I want to be with him forever, and I am counting on him to support our family while I attend college for 4 years. He makes a steady income and I love him, he's the father of our child, and he loves us both very, very much. I'm just not sure how I feel back. I'd probably say that the only reason I'm still with him is that I have no place else to go, he helps me and I help him, and right now he pays a lot of the bills so I don't have to, which makes me stay with him, because I know I couldn't make it on my own, and I don't want to leave our son with him. So.... do I love for money would you say? Kind of. Right now, anyway, until I get out of college and get a job. I love him, but I'm not "in love" with him, and I feel like I'm leading him on. Is this wrong? Because I actually feel really guilty.

[Mickey001]

Get the heck out of college and get a job.  Don't lead a good man no a road to nowhere!

[ULuvCeCe]

I used to date men with money not because I was a gold digger I just ended up with them.  This was when I was making over $60k myself so I think it was societies standard so to speak.  Then I got fired from that job, I struggle to make $20k and I sometimes wish I had my old life. 

The person I'm dating now was also at a $60k job, got laid off and has been on unemployment since.  We started dating after he was laid off so I know I'm definitely not in it for the money, we're struggling but we love each other. 

[tantricia44]

my man is on disability, so u know i dont love him for his money   lol

[tantricia44]

I don't love Garrett for his money, but I'm not sure I want to be with him forever, and I am counting on him to support our family while I attend college for 4 years. He makes a steady income and I love him, he's the father of our child, and he loves us both very, very much. I'm just not sure how I feel back. I'd probably say that the only reason I'm still with him is that I have no place else to go, he helps me and I help him, and right now he pays a lot of the bills so I don't have to, which makes me stay with him, because I know I couldn't make it on my own, and I don't want to leave our son with him. So.... do I love for money would you say? Kind of. Right now, anyway, until I get out of college and get a job. I love him, but I'm not "in love" with him, and I feel like I'm leading him on. Is this wrong? Because I actually feel really guilty.

Did you fall in love with him in the beginning & then fall out of love with him? If so, think back on what made you fall for him. If not, then no I don't think it's fair for you to use him like that. Your giving him the impression that there is a future with him. I know it's hard but honesty is best.

[tantricia44]

I used to date men with money not because I was a gold digger I just ended up with them.  This was when I was making over $60k myself so I think it was societies standard so to speak.  Then I got fired from that job, I struggle to make $20k and I sometimes wish I had my old life. 

The person I'm dating now was also at a $60k job, got laid off and has been on unemployment since.  We started dating after he was laid off so I know I'm definitely not in it for the money, we're struggling but we love each other. 

Uluv your so lucky. Knowing in your mind/soul that here is someone out there that loves you above all others is better than all the money in the world! Treasure it, never take it for granted.

[cubarican210]

This is interesting because me and my husband were talking about this the other day. I told him that I'm with him for love. If I would've wanted a guy with a ton of money I would've been left and looked for one. I can say both me and my husband are a bit on the poor side. The kind of people that live paycheck to paycheck. I met him that way and I still love him that way. Money was never a factor for me. I mean seriously we could live in a card-board box and I'd still love him. That's how I am. He goes through tough times and so do I. I wouldn't leave him for anything in the world.