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[countrygirl12]

be careful and tread lightly. How many years older is he? And is he married? Find out more about him, he might be lying to you.

Lying?  NOOOOOO!  Surely you don't think anybody would do that?  lol.

[Penwoir]

My guess is that he doesn't feel attracted to you and he has plastered the age thing on your head as let's face it, it is something you can't change. I would say let it go because right now, he just wants to be your friend. If you push it, you might lose him as a friend. You never know, once you have accepted it and start to consider your other options, you might become more attractive to him. I would also say, there are so many awesome men in the world, you deserve someone who is equally interested in you as you are him. As one of your other writers said... there are many fish in the sea!

[kingozzy]

age is just a number but some people don't see it that way.  Try to seem less interested in him maybe then he will start thinking about you.

[reiddb]

You can't make it happen. If he is sure he isn't interested in you this way, you need to quit seeing him and start looking somewhere else.  You'll never find another as long as you've "pinned your cap on him".  Sorry~

[Screwedupclick4life337]

He might be nervous are either he hiding something but go with your gut feeling if he like you he going to come around to it

[jiuchan]

It's really his choice honestly, if he's not interested in you, then that's on him.

[countrygirl12]

He might be nervous are either he hiding something but go with your gut feeling if he like you he going to come around to it

I seriously doubt he is hiding something.  More than likely it is exactly what he said - he feels there is too much of an age gap.  I have had men want to date me that were 20 plus years older than me.  And he was like oh age is just a number.  And I had absolutely NO interest in a man 20 years older than me.  And nothing would change my mind.  Age is not just a number.  And to most people it does matter.

[countrygirl12]

It's really his choice honestly, if he's not interested in you, then that's on him.

That just seems kind of wrong.  In the past I have had guys who liked me and when I didn't like them for whatever reason people who were for him acted like I was a bad person or saying "oh it's her loss".  No there was no loss on my part.  Someone does not have to like you just because you like them.  And if they don't like you why would you want to try to force them to like you any way?

And yeah I have liked guys who didn't feel the same way about me.  I didn't or don't think bad about them.  Looking back - with every single one of them - it was my gain to not have got involved anyway.  : )

[cberman]

I have moved on we are just friends and we only talk once in awhile but too him age matters trust me he likes me as a friend and that's fine with me. and I am not trying to force him into anything he is a big boy he can make up his mind and if he don't want to date me that's fine we can be friends I don't care I have to much going on for me now to worry about relationships