Tough month so far

[patti4me]

On December 1st my husband and I were at the nursing home visiting with my father-in-law.  My cellphone rang (I usually have it on silent while at the nursing home)  It was one of my nephews and I knew something had to be wrong.  I excused myself and stepped out of the room.  He was calling to tell me that his dad had passed away suddenly a couple of hours before.  He was only 57 years old and the EMT guys thought it was probably his heart.  I told him to tell his mother I was on my way.  It took my 2 1/2 hours drive time to get to my sisters' house where I stayed for a week.  My brother-in-laws' service took place that following saturday but in the mean time I came down with broncitus and a severe throat infection, and then the next day I had the flu.  Needless to say I was in no condition to go to his memorial service.  I felt so bad having to miss it but just had no choice.  My sister and her family understood for which I'm grateful.  Now, we're dealing with my father-in-law in the nursing home wanting to stop eating so he can just go on and die.  He recouped pretty good from his broken hip but at 97 years old he's ready to give up and go home to the Lord.  Its hard for all of us to see him this way and I hope he'll have a change of heart.  Prayers would be appreciated.

[Nancy5]

Patty4me I am so very sorry for the things that have happened.  Your brother in law dying is so sad, he was so very young.  I pray your sister and her child(ren) have the strength to carry on, especially during the holiday.  It is never easy to lose someone, but I think it is hardest during holidays.  As for your father in law, I know how hard it can be, my mom spent her last years in a nursing home.  If he has full mental condition there is nothing you can do about his refusal to eat, if not, perhaps a feeding tube is the answer, but that is a decision the family must make.  I am so very sorry you are going through this dfficult time.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers.  God bless you and your family.

[BATISTAGIRL663]

so very sorry to hear you have had all these things going on --heres prayers that the new year will bring you peace and happiness

[Penwoir]

I'm sorry to hear you've had such a terrible time lately.  I can relate to you feeling sad at this time of year, my father passed away on Thanksgiving day!  I was so very sad that year but for every thanksgiving I've had since then, I am thankful for the memories of family times and can I say, I even laugh at the silly pranks my dad used to played on my mum! You know, I don't mean to impose my thoughts and feelings onto you, but there are so many people who die when they (and their families) are not ready. At least your father is ready..... God Bless you and your family.

[theone28]

yah my grandpa died of a heart attack being in a nursing home

[bowrunner]

You have had a very bad time lately and I certainly hope that things do improve for you.  It's even harder for you at this time of the year.  My prayers are with you.

[cathy37]

I am so sorry for what you have been through and are still going through.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers and put it in God's hands.

[marciaenglish]

I am sending prayers your way!  Hang in there!

[teenangel]

prayers from me to

[catherinedwhite]

Sorry for your sorrow.  Depend on your family to get you through these tough times.

[dreamyxo]

Sorry to hear about your troubles lately sometimes when it rains it pours.

[patti4me]

Thank you all for your understanding.  I truly appreciate all the prayers and well wishes.  God bless you all.

[Skyenkit]

I am very to hear all the obstacles in you life. I am sure everything will be fine. I include you and your family in my prayers.

[rdy2pl8]

I'm sorry to hear that, I'm praying for you and your family. Keep the faith and stay strong, God will always be by your side.