To all women~~~ (Men are ok, too)

[weaves5]

ive actually seen articles and stuff about why men/people want to watch *bleep*. most say it is to fill a void in there life, escape from the real world and enter a fantasy. also maybe they cant obtain their "dream" girl so they need to use *bleep* as a way to get that "dream" girl
its probably similar to why people play world of warcraft and other games like that, which i dont get

[SoontobeLane36]

I think it makes me feel like he's not getting everything he wants/needs from me, and then that leads to me thinking he wants to leave me for someone more "*bleep* like". I also think it seems like he'd be more likely to cheat if he's so okay with watching (and whacking off to) other women having sex. If he's watching *bleep*, then I'm not satisfying him. (this isn't my situation now with my husband, but it's how I felt years ago when I lived with a boyfriend.)

I agree!

[mollymp]

lol i asked my husband who was laying in bed with me while i was reading these other threads how he felt if i watched *bleep* and he said quote " it turns me on" lol i told him he was such a pervert.. but i dont mind if he watches *bleep* although he wont watch it unless i watch it with him and then he gets a bit irritated when i snicker over certain clips or scenes....lol so basically i don't mind if he watches it. 

[wrjosh88]

jacking off is actually pretty addicting, It's not easy for guys to just stop doing it altogether...

[debraleesparks]

   Why men shouldn't have action fiqures!!!

[pshah1991]

There is a line. Addictively not. I personally don't think its okay for anyone to be addicted to anything.

But humans are humans. and Guys are guys. So so long as I;m not being foced against my will on anything, then I'm good.

[smyles21]

I wouldn't like it but it would depend on how long I'd been with him, if he was into it before me an if I was willing to live with something like that for the rest of my life. I mean, men are men and a little *bleep* is to be expected...that's what they do. If it's coming down to the point where it's increasing and you aren't or I wasn't enough for my man I'd have to re-evaluate the relationship if not end it altogether. There's too  many fish in the sea to not get treated the way you feel like you should be treated. I'd rather be alone.....I've been fine for a while that way. (single mom working and going to school full time :-) not always easy to meet people)

[happyhappyjoyjoy]

I was upset  the first time my husband said something to me about watching *bleep*.  Then we sat down and talked it over and I agreed to watch 1 with him to find out what he likes about it.  It is just something different for guys.  It helps some of them keep from going anywhere else if they can watch "someone" else even if its just on the t.v.  My husband and I now watch them together and have for the past 3 years.  We talk them over together and really get a good laugh making fun of the stupid stuff in them.  Now he really doesnt buy them anymore and hardly ever watches them.  He says he doesnt need them to get arosed... just to get a good laugh..... communication is a very big key and fixing alot of things......

[jan8904]

I think it makes me feel like he's not getting everything he wants/needs from me, and then that leads to me thinking he wants to leave me for someone more "*bleep* like". I also think it seems like he'd be more likely to cheat if he's so okay with watching (and whacking off to) other women having sex. If he's watching *bleep*, then I'm not satisfying him. (this isn't my situation now with my husband, but it's how I felt years ago when I lived with a boyfriend.)

I agree!

You should really talk to them about it then.  His watching *bleep* should not make you feel inadequate in and of itself.  If you feel inadequate, it's usually because there's not enough communication in your relationship or that the two or you are not openly discussing your sex lives.  Believe it or not, ego stroking goes a long way!  I was one of those people that was bothered by it with my ex.  I realized that it wasn't the *bleep* that bothered me.  It was the way that he would compare me to them and say things like 'why can't you do it like that?'.  Those things are so degrading.  My fiance watches *bleep* and it doesn't bother me at all.  Honestly, it sometimes gives him ideas about how to keep our sex life interesting - like new positions and things like that.  He is very good with complementing me and I always make a point of telling him when he does something I like.  *bleep* isn't even a fantasy as some suggest.  That implies that he would rather be there with those people in the movie.  That's not usually the case.  The way it was explained to me is that men are very visual people.  *bleep* helps them along with envisioning sex but the reality is, they are probably looking at the girl in the video and pretending it's you.  Try to be more open about things he'd like to try and experiment with him!

[Shutmeup3030150]

Ohh good lord, my boyfriend is like that, I personally CAN NOT STAND IT. He has me, so why would he need to watch a bunch of sluts he doesn't even know?