For me, I don't even see color or race. All I see are, are they kind and considerate to me, to they genuinely care about me, would they sacrifice their own wants and needs for me and our children and are they selfless. In return, I love irrespective of background or race. For the record, I am white and am married to a half Asian/half black man. I am proud to be married to my husband, I really don't care what wrapping he has!