what would you do?

[dwggs]

She is apparently stealing for a reason .. perhaps she has an addiction problem .. what she needs is rehab to get to the root of the problem if it is in fact drug related.

[skrogman]

I would have a talk with her and let her know that I do love her, but would maintain a relationship with her by phone, text, e-mail, or going out to eat or going out places.  I think she would know and understand if you said you wanted a relationship, but could not have her back in your home.  Her conscience knows what she is doing and why you would say that.  And if you maintain the relationship and she seeks help, she will remember who was there for her. 

[pmagalei]

Hopefully they find her and bring her in to the authorities. At the same time, it might cause more money but she will need counseling or some sort of behavior specialist to find out why she does it. Who knows what's on her mind but she needs to be told that it is NOT correct to steal. If she needs money, ask or find a job if she is capable.

[autumnsparklemom]

So so sorry! I hope she is found safely. Since I have never been in your shoes - I wouldn't know what I would do.