Facebook

[braggin]

My hubby is not on Facebook but he also sometimes gets annoyed with me for posting stuff on Facebook about him or our kids. He finds out about it because he has a friend who is on Facebook, reads my posts, then calls my hubby about the subject of the posts. For example, my daughter got married recently and I posted a photo of her getting married. My husband's friend saw it and called my husband to congratulate him about being a new father-in-law. My hubby was annoyed about this because he thinks my daughter's wedding is a private family thing and is not something that should go up on Facebook. My kids also sometimes get annoyed with me for stuff I post that I consider innocuous and they consider private. I like Facebook a lot because it helps me keep up with the doings of friends and family, but it can be a pain sometimes.

[bonzie]

I think sometimes, I can say yes it ruins relationship, sometimes even in friendship. Post misunderstanding is the common reason. But of course it defends of how 2 people handle it. There is no problem can`t be solve, if the 2 person involve will cooperate well.

[sarabtrayior]

My husband and I are facebook friends and we have no problem. He posts a lot more than me and I find myself liking pictures that he posts. I too see facebook as a way to help me connect with friends and family, especially friends that lives in a different state than me.

[melissaotto1982]

It kind of sounds like there may be some trust issues if you have to do that!?

[anitaraemillspalmer]

For those of you with a facebook page is your significant other on your list of facebook friends.I noticed alot of my friends deleting their mates as they say they spy on their page and start alot of drama. Mines got mad and posted something about our personal life and it pissed me off.some things should be private.I thought about deleting him from my page.what is your thoughts on this

I agree arguments, disputes, private matters are not the place for FB, it is to connect with friends, hence the word friends.  I wouldn't delete a person or unfriend unless you have completely deleted and unfriended them from you life...make an agreement with your significant other that you will not use FB as a weapon...so to speak...that's my opinion

[vp44]

In my opinion talk and see what can be done to fix the problem. I am a single. If I was in this situation I would try to result the problem with talking to your guy and try to work it out in a way that both are happy. Things happen for a reason. It may be that you 2 need to have a conversation about boundaries and other things. When you go into a relationship with things that both are aware of and you have things set in place(like a prenup) then when this happens you know where you stand. Just my opinion.