Sex

[levettepough]

Do you think that it is healthy to have sex everyday, My partner is 65 and I am 45 and have had a total hysterectomy and I have lost all desires but my people desire sex everyday if I would is'nt there something wrong with that? or is there something wrong with me?

[queenofnines]

Yes it's healthy, as long as the desire doesn't interfere with other things in your hubby's life.

[Barbara4321]

Nothing wrong with sex everyday, but I'm sorry you are not enjoying it. There may be some treatment/medicine you can take to improve this situation. You can find out more at WebMD or some other reputable site.  In the meantime, it is wonderful of you to give your partner happiness and pleasure despite your own lack of interest. One proviso: if the activity causes you any sort of physical pain, don't be a martyr.

[zreeds]

wow! I think it might be you. I want it all the time and I have that procedure done also. do you still have your ovaries because I still have mine, maybe that's the issue.

[angprescott]

I think it is a personal preference, my husband I have no issues in this area, but if you feel you do, maybe you should ask your doctor, there maybe something that they could recommend you do or use to make it a better experience for you, causing more desire. Hope it works out whatever way you want.

[potluck6]

I decide to look at debate and discuss and this is the first post ok more interesting then the others. well now it all depend on the person having gone through menopause my sex drive took a taxi out of town and still waiting for it to come back.

[soloam1]

yes i totally believe its healthy and  a great stress reliever.

[nguzman1]

I don' t think it is wrong many times sexual desire is completely different for men or women.

[batmobile]

a woman who doesnt enjoy sex...a prude...a man who doesnt desire sex...no fun 
is this a serious question? wow...

[Nancy5]

Whatever you and your partner want/agree on is normal.  If you don't enjoy it perhaps your doctor can help find a reason.  I had the same surgery you had about 5 years ago and it hasn't affected me like you, but everyone is different.  I think sex is an important part of a relationship, but it is not the most important part. If there is nothing medically wrong I would sit down and have a serious talk with your partner, he might just surprise you and be understanding.  Good luck!