Hypothetical question???????????

[timvolley]

I think you should tell them because they would want to know

[HuffmanFamilyof4]

I would mind my own business. I also have 2 children, both adults and if their spouse is cheating, then it's up to them to figure that out

[remediagirl]

Yes! I would most definitely tell them!

[elysee24]

Yes, I agree with others!! I will tell him/her.

[ladycasshmere]

I would definitely tell my child whats going on

[BaudLight]

I don't have a son or a daughter but if I did,  I would probably tell them, if I knew for sure.

[diala84]

I think if there is proof rather than hearsay or a hunch it would be a good idea to tell your daughter (or son).

[donnitab]

I would definitely tell them immediately! 

[maxinmotion]

I would definitely tell my son and daughter about something like that. If I knew for a fact that either one of them was being cheated on but I didn't have proof. I would simply ask if everything was alright at home. That alone will give you time to find some kind of proof that you can use. I couldn't live with myself if I knew something like that and did not tell my child.

[tantricia44]

If you have positive proof that your child's trust is being violated then, yes you should tell him/her! It's not only heartbreak,involved here, if the cheater is coming home after being with someone else, & your child is trusting this piece of s-t; how can anybody be sure if he/she used protection while cheating on his/her spouse? Not only, is you're child endangered of contracting some deadly diease, but the betrayal alone would kill anyone's soul! No matter how old your kid's are, you're still the parent, & a parent's job is to keep them protected when you have too. Good luck, & go save your child!

[mrisha]

If it's hypothetical, then it's any story that is made up or told and can be a lie.  So if you want an honest answer say so.

[queenofnines]

Absolutely. But I ain't got no chillins. 

[jennalyn_ruth]

Yes i will tell them because I care for them, and I Love them.

[bigfoot951]

Good question.  That is a tough one and I don't have any kids.  Part of me thinks I would stay out of it.  For one thing, they likely wouldn't believe you and end up getting mad.  Plus there are tough life lessons that need to be learned along the way.

[hawkeye3210]

I agree unless you have proof I would not say anything until I have it because when people are in love they will not believe a word you say without facts.  I know this because me and my cousin are more like sister but a guy she was dating was simply no good and I told her without proof and we did not talk for almost five months when she finally caught him.

Are you two talking again now? Imagine if you didn't say anything and she found out that you knew five months before that and didn't say anything.