I called up my sister and brother in-law to see what was going on.

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I called my sister (I am 5 years 19 days older than she is) to see what was going on with them.  My brother in-law has a penchant for being exceptionally irritating when you call them.  The subject matter, as usual, was my youngest sister and my brother.  My brother told my sister she cannot control her husband because he told my youngest sister she need to go to church and give God praise.  I told her she needs to worry about her life.  She got my brother a job and he can talk to everyone there but her.  They updated me on my youngest sister.  I understand that God gives children to people who do not need them.  My niece is nearly 14 and my nephew is 12.  My niece do the shopping for the household because my youngest sister is so irresponsible and lazy, she sleeps all day. The taxes are due on the house again, and my sister is worried about it.  I told her she still needs to let my brother and youngest sister live their own lives.  She has a good heart, but they are stepping on it.  My youngest sister went to church and asked them to pray that she gets a job.  Once she got the job, she hasn't been back to church but once, and that was because I was there with her.  I spent 2 hours and she spent 30 minutes.  To tell you how bad it is with her, she can't file for disability nor get Social Security.  She has only worked 1 job in the whole time, and Social Security expects you to work 10 years.  Her kids need school clothes, my sister next to me goes out and purchase them.  Will someone tell me what is wrong with this picture?  I told her that she is going to be taking care of her until she dies.  My brother in-law is upset because they are doing my sister wrong.  I say she should stop worrying about them and let them live their own lives.  Who agrees with me?