I am invited to go my friends wedding on June 28,2013

[black1304]

I think if it were me I would ask her outright why she was unable to make it to my wedding.  If she gave a reasonable explanation that should help you make your decision.  My second option would be to go to her wedding, but not bother with a gift.  If you are still friendly it's up to you, but if you haven't been very friendly since she didn't come to your wedding, I wouldn't want to spend money on her.  Good Luck with your debate.

[shepherdchik]

if you forgave her and are friends now, obviously if she invited you to her wedding, I would honestly ask her why she was not there to support you. If that question causes a problem or she gets defensive then you have your answer and probably not a friend anymore. If she is your friend then you should be able to talk about what happened. good luck

[Yalonda29]

Did you ever decide to go I mean not matter what we say its still up to you. But me personally I would go and not be angry about the past just be the best friend she suppose to been to you.

[candyterrius]

On October 21,2006 my husband and I got married and I was expecting my friend at the time to be there for me. However, she never showed up for my wedding or my bridal shower. She was no where to be found. I was really angry with her for the longest time, and til this very day, I still don't know why she didn't come to my wedding. What would you do? I have since forgave her, but I never will forget what she did. My husband really doesn't want to go after the way she treated me when I was getting married. So, I am a little baffaled on what to do.  My sister told me I should go. I have mixed feelings  on what I should do. Do you think she was jealous of me? Honestly speaking I think she was. But I still need to know why she wasn't there on my special day.
Any advice is greatly appreciated!!

It’s strange when you said you forgiven her but haven’t forgotten the time she didn't show up at your wedding and bridal shower. To me it means you HAVEN’T forgiven her at all. Like what the other members said, you shouldn’t hold grudges by living in the past. I wouldn’t worry about stroking my Ego thinking it was jealousy. Who cares? You can never be wrong if you attend her wedding. This will show that you are a true friend. Just because she didn’t attend yours doesn’t mean it gives you the incentive to drop at her level.

[maxinmotion]

Somewhere down the line you made her think that you had forgiven her, other wise she would not have invited you to her wedding. If her missing your wedding hurt you that bad, you should just tell her and clear the air. Even if you attend the wedding, if you are holding that grudge you are being fake. Speak to your friend before the wedding about how you really feel or just stay home, it is to late in the day to play with each others feelings.

[ejholt]

My grandson is getting married May 26, just little over week from now.  I had to take a personal day off work to get to go.  He is marrying a nice young lady that is a 8th grade teacher.  I pray they have a good life together.  Hope everyone has a wonderful day and may God bless each of you and keep you safe.