suppost to be friend

[hstille]

I had a friend who said she was there for me completly in any situation but when i was having health issues and was not directing my life completly around her she had posted a nasty and very hurtful post on facebook instead of coming to me which hurt me badly,so now we are no longer friends because she felt i didn't bother  with her for the right reasons at the time.I really don't understand people and how they say they are your friend but turn on you in a difficult time!

[moonangel]

true friends are there for you thru everything not just the fun times right now i dont have any friends my wife is not in good health so when i could really use a friend i have no one....

[msmoneybags48]

True friends are with you in good times and bad times.  It is sad that your "so-called" friend posted that about you on Facebook; she was what I call a fair weather friend and you're better off without her.

My prayers are with you.

[rcbrad]

Sometimes it is really painful to learn that so called friends are not really there for you at all.  I think that we have all been there. (myself included)  It sounds like your "friend" is kind of selfish and immature.  Of course I do have friends, but as the years go on, I have learned not to lean so much on people or expect too much from people.  It can become bitterly disappointing and make you feel down, when people turn their backs on you.   It has made me stronger and I enjoy my own company more now, by being more self sufficient and relying on my own power to cope, feel better, etc.

[vickysue]

I love my good and trust worthy friends. I just know how i would feel if they weren't with us. Some of my friends were friends when we were in school and that was a long long time ago. Friends for 60 years. Then i also other friends for only a short time but we are there through thick and thin. I can talk to them about anything and everything. And if i don't want to talk but instead cry they are right there for me.