Patience

[alice44]

There are some things that try my patience, but generally I don't get too frazzled.  My husband does, so one of us has to stay in control 

[MsLeadn]

I think that I've had to gain patience after having my child. It will drive you crazy if you don't have tolerance. But, I have to say with the adults of the world, my patience is tested all the time. I guess its just knowing when to keep it cool.

[sherryinutah]

Even a very patient person can experience a challenge when it come's to a three year old.  The bottom line is that the child is learning what they can and can't get away with when they spend time with you.

Whether you want it or not you are a teacher in that childs' life at this time.   

[hensleyll]

thats what im trying to remember they are sponges at this age how i deal with her is how she will learn

[plennis]

I watch a 3 year old and a 19 month old several times a week.  Sometimes I just have to ask myself, in a few hours is this really going to matter.  I just pick the battles, I forget sometimes that they are little and not yet grownups.  They are great kids, smart (sometimes too smart!), curious.  I try to set boundaries and baby proof the house, then there is less to get upset about.  The closer we keep to our routine, naps, snacks, lunches, out door time the better they are.  

[hensleyll]

Well my issue is her mom and dad and aunt which she all lives with lets her do and behave any way she wants,so when she doesnt get her way she screams off the top of her lungs,i`m trying but i just dont know if i will be able to continue to watch the kid

[BlackSheepNY]

apparently i have none anymore,this spoiled jealous three year old i watch is taxing my last nerve

Three year olds have a tendency to do that.  It's best to remain patient and loving.  You never know who is watching (I sure would be).

[melissaotto1982]

I completely feel your pain!!! I have a 2 and 3 year old!!!

[jcribb16]

Patience is a hard virtue, sometimes.  I hope it gets better for you with the little one.  Hang in there!

[hensleyll]

Im doing ok i am not violent we do short time outs without cartoons this seems to help calm her down for now