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AreletiaG

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i dont no what
« on: July 08, 2012, 10:00:45 pm »
am in a relationship that i dont want to be in
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #1 on: July 09, 2012, 02:03:50 am »
Pretend you are single and you have a secret admirer.
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #2 on: July 09, 2012, 02:44:12 am »
be as honest as you can and tell them that you aren't looking to be in a relationship right now. :wave: :peace:
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #3 on: July 09, 2012, 03:29:40 pm »
Just be honest and tell that person how you are feeling.
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #4 on: July 09, 2012, 04:50:29 pm »
Be honest and explain how you feel face to face. Don't break up over text or online. You want to try to end things on decent terms if possible
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #5 on: July 09, 2012, 07:03:17 pm »
 
  End that relationship. Do not suffer anymore!
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #6 on: July 09, 2012, 07:11:40 pm »
Quote from: ancmetro on July 09, 2012, 07:03:17 pm

  End that relationship. Do not suffer anymore!

I agree, leave them.  What's holding you back?  ??? There's help out there if they are threatening you or hurting you.  If you're worried about the other person... you're harming them more by letting them continue under the illusion that you feel the same for them.  Let go of what you don't want so you can attract what you do want.  :peace:
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #7 on: July 09, 2012, 07:35:08 pm »
I understand how you are feeling.  :'( Sometimes it is harder than others on the outside say (just leave). Are you married to that person? If you are, then that complicates things doesnt it? Dont take marriage lightly like a lot of people these days do. A lot of soul searching is in order. If you are not married, then maybe it is a different story. Ask yourself some hard questions. Pros and cons. If you are not in love with this person and not happy, then why are you staying?  :dontknow: This is not fair to you nor to the other person. Good luck with the answers you find.  :thumbsup:
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #8 on: July 09, 2012, 11:13:08 pm »
Take steps to move on if you really don't want to be in the relationship your in.  You could do some online research to find out more.
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« Reply #9 on: July 10, 2012, 12:44:48 am »
AreletiaG ~ It takes 2 to make a couple, 2 to have a relationship, 2 to produce a child....& most importantly, it take 2 to have the mutual feelings for each other. If both parties are not equal in feelings, love, respect,... if one party is lacking in the relationship best thing to do is end it.  :thumbsup: :wave:
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #10 on: July 10, 2012, 04:32:01 am »
The best advice- BE HONEST!!! Although it may hurt, you need to consider the other person's feelings! Just because you dont WANT TO, doesn't mean that they don't deserve it! Good Luck!
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #11 on: July 10, 2012, 04:38:39 am »
Be honest so that both of you can move on
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #12 on: October 09, 2012, 08:06:02 pm »
the longer you take to tell him the harder itll be on both of you!
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #13 on: October 10, 2012, 09:46:54 am »
Leave.
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Re: i dont no what
« Reply #14 on: October 10, 2012, 10:44:54 am »
Be honest with that person and leave.
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