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Shavontae

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Marriage!!??!!??
« on: May 04, 2012, 10:14:26 pm »
Is 19 too young to get married or do you think its how a person feels? :heart:

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« Reply #1 on: May 04, 2012, 10:19:29 pm »
19? Heck, no! I got married at 18 and my hubby and I only wish we hadn't waited so long! We've been married 5 years now and I love him dearly. Love is Love is Love. Love knows no age.  :thumbsup:

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« Reply #2 on: May 04, 2012, 10:47:33 pm »
Too young for me but to each his own.  I certainly wouldn't do it.  I'd never want to be tied down that young.

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« Reply #3 on: May 05, 2012, 12:22:57 am »
Is 19 too young to get married or do you think its how a person feels? :heart:
If you are in love my question to you is What's stopping you? Hurry up and get married. It's
a wonderful institute of 2 hearts beating as one.

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« Reply #4 on: May 05, 2012, 12:25:33 am »
Is 19 too young to get married or do you think its how a person feels? :heart:

I married at 19 and was married for 25 years.  It felt right.  I would recommend following your heart and doing what you feel is best for yourself and your significant other.
Have a great day!

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« Reply #5 on: May 05, 2012, 04:20:26 am »
I was 21 and my wife was 19 when we got married! Been married for over 25 years now! It depends on the person and maturity.....

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« Reply #6 on: May 05, 2012, 05:09:20 am »
I was 20. I don't think its too young. But it does depend on maturity of both partners. Best wishes.

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« Reply #7 on: May 05, 2012, 06:09:52 am »
It's definitely how the person feels in the relationship.  If you are in love and you both want to get married, I say go for it.  Age is just a number.  From personal experience, I would get married right now if I could to my boyfriend of 3 years and I'm only 20.  We just want to be financially stable first before we commit like that.  Good luck though!

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« Reply #8 on: May 05, 2012, 06:30:01 am »
This is difficult for me to answer.  I married at age 18 and it turned out to be for all the wrong reasons and ended after 11 years.  We change and mature over the years.  It depends on many things, maturity level, reasons for getting married, etc.  Good luck!

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« Reply #9 on: May 05, 2012, 06:53:09 am »
I'm of the opinion that a person is capable of making bad choices at any age so that age is less important than maturity.  Just be sure you're not marrying for the wrong reasons or with unrealistic expectations.  There will be tough times and it takes a strong relationship.  Don't get married expecting it fix all that's wrong with your life.  On the other hand, if you get lucky and meet the right person at an early age, go for it.  You know best if you take the time to seriously consider your options.


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« Reply #10 on: May 05, 2012, 07:08:18 am »
If you are sure that the two of you are ready, I say go for it. I put off getting married because I thought I was too young, I am still single at 48. No real regrets here; just follow your heart. And the best of luck to both of you.

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« Reply #11 on: May 05, 2012, 07:10:13 am »
I atleast think if you over 18 it's aight it's just my opinion

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« Reply #12 on: May 05, 2012, 07:56:43 am »
As long as capable to raise the child and financial independent by 18 or 19 year old

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« Reply #13 on: May 05, 2012, 08:13:33 am »
Go with your  :heart:, love and mind are a terrible thing to waste, Go on and get married!!!!! :thumbsup:

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« Reply #14 on: May 05, 2012, 08:24:42 am »
Marriage is two large a responsibility for someone so young to take on. See the world. Go to college get a degree, Save your money and see Europe. No one should be getting married until they are at least 26 years of age. There are too many developmental things taking place at this time. What experience can you offer a child if you have no experience? This is way too soon. Learn the things you need to know to make your marriage a success. can you cook? Clean? Do Laundry? Do you know anything about running a household? Have you decided on what type of lifestyle you feel comfortable in? Do you know anything about male/female psychology? Do you understand human frailty? Have you prepared financially for children?If your mate does something awful can you forgive? Do you even know yourself and your own needs well enough to share your life with another person? Marriage is not some fairy tale you are taking on another human being and giving your word to support them for the rest of your life. I know people say "If it does not work I'll just get a divorce" but they are not people who are ready for the responsibility of a marriage? There is so much to consider do not attempt this without counseling. :peace:

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