what do you think of this ?

[cateyes1]

I am such a HUGE people person. I would like to make friends with someone that I feel a TRUE/REAL connection too and unconditional...I met this one woman on line 5 years ago and the connection was amazing. I mean we talked about anything and everything...yes she was into women but I am as straight as a ruler yet emotionaly I became soooo attached to her in an odd way I felt she was my soulmate because of how close I felt to her. anyways she only talks to me now only when I talk to her first. we have yet to meet in person and I know now we never will because she feels I betrayed  her by talking to someone else. see I believe that it is sooo hard to make a connection with just ANYONE like she and I did no matter if its with a man or a woman...How do I now get over her friendship? oh believe you me i'm trying and I feel i'm making some progress but its almost like losing a boyfriend/husband...has anyone else ever had such a connection with the same sex?

[dreamyxo]

she feels I betrayed  her by talking to someone else.

What is she in middle school?  I'm sorry but this sounds extremely immature.  You can't talk to other people?  You sure you want to be friends with someone like that?  You've never met her in real life and most likely you never will.  She doesn't initiate anything unless you do it first.  I say forget it and move on.  Find people in your area that you can meet in real life. 

[franlee46]

I am such a HUGE people person. I would like to make friends with someone that I feel a TRUE/REAL connection too and unconditional...I met this one woman on line 5 years ago and the connection was amazing. I mean we talked about anything and everything...yes she was into women but I am as straight as a ruler yet emotionaly I became soooo attached to her in an odd way I felt she was my soulmate because of how close I felt to her. anyways she only talks to me now only when I talk to her first. we have yet to meet in person and I know now we never will because she feels I betrayed  her by talking to someone else. see I believe that it is sooo hard to make a connection with just ANYONE like she and I did no matter if its with a man or a woman...How do I now get over her friendship? oh believe you me i'm trying and I feel i'm making some progress but its almost like losing a boyfriend/husband...has anyone else ever had such a connection with the same sex?

That sounds very weird to say the least sometimes I meet new people and it is like Dejavu but not so much that I can not have a relationship with other people male or female I do not think I have ever been in that kind of a situation maybe it is time for you to just move on 

[tigerscene]

makeing friends,takeing down post, reading emails,we all are learning and makeing something out of it some were

[Jl_csy]

I have never had that type of connection with a woman. Sounds like she was very special to you. It is hard to get over any relationship no matter what the sex of the person. I hope you can move on and not feel guilty. True friends are really hard to find.