Trying to get a girlfriend. HELP!!

[cheeseland321]

I'm going to high school next year and I was wonderiing how I can get a gf. I like this girl alot but she barely talks to me and other boys make her laugh and stuff so I'm too afraid to go talk to her because she mite think I'm boring what does girls like about boys? I'm pretty strong, play football, little popular but not so smart :/

[lucky382001]

If you never talk to her she will never have a chance to know you and you need to be yourself. If she doesn't like you after that then chances are some other girl will notice you that does. 

[marcar1008]

Ask her what she is doing on the weekend, then invite her to the Mall. Get to know her more. Maybe she feels the same way about you. Maybe she is thinking that you don't like her cause you don't talk to her too much.

[jklol5]

Just be yourself! Talk to her, and be very respectful to her. Treat her well and don't try to be someone you're not. Be yourself and have a fun time! You should ask her on a classic date instead of just "hanging out". Going on dates is a classic.

[ktheodos]

you have to be willing to put yourself out there...if it doesn't seem like it's working out, maybe it's just not meant to be or you should just wait! Be yourself, don't push it too much...don't pressure yourself into being in a relationship just because its popular or seems like others are having fun in theirs...a lot of times it isn't genuine. good luck!

[vicogden]

Just be confident, walk up to her and tell her you'd like to take her out for some coffee or ice cream.  Be respectful, but don't try to be a friend--at least at first.  Let her know in a tactful, yet unique way that you are attracted to her.  Make sure you let her know that you walk your own walk; it's good to stand out somewhat. 

If you don't have any luck, then rob a bank and tell her your rich!

Good luck!

[dreamyxo]

At your age you don't need a girlfriend you need to worry about your studies.  You will have plenty of time later for all of that drama.  Make friends, play sports, study hard, learn all you can learn to make yourself a well rounded person.  Enjoy being a kid.  Don't rush to grow up.  Everything ain't for every body.  Just say no!

[Boise40]

Don't be a fool like me and let a girl that you like slip away. There is this girl from high school that I like and her name is Marci. I was thinking that she wouldn't like me because I'm pretty much big as Shrek LOL. I have played basketball, football and I been lifting weights as well. I don't do any of that to impress any women. I just did it at the time because of football and I wanted to stay in shape. Anyways, I have talked to Marci a few times. I just never asked her out. I have seen her a few times since we graduated back in 2006. Now, she got a man in her life and 2 kids. I was seriously a fool for never asking her out.

[manders8]

I would start off by being friends with the girl you like. I know that most good relationships start off with a good friendship. It is important for you to talk with this girl and get to know her better. Start trying to figure out what she likes, and get to know her personally. If you start paying her attention she will start to notice you more. I know that sometimes it is better said then done when you like someone. But it is important for you to let her know that you have feelings for her. You could always ask her out and see if she wants to hang out with you sometime. Good luck!

[pokemaz]

There are a lot of good suggestions here. The best ones are to be yourself, be friendly, and don't get too upset if she turns you down. Some women are self-absorbed. If it's meant to be, it will be!

[tzs]

Dude-don't worry about a dang girlfriend right now, with all of the other emotions and hormones changing in your body, and beginning  H. S., heartbreak and longing are feelings you don't need tp have just yet!!!!!! Just make friends, man! Try to have a good time, get good grades, and  love might find you by itself!!!

[kangagirl1321]

strike up a conversation. say hi first then if she responds then talk some more.

[masked_brown_guy]

high school huh, you should tell her you can turn into a werewolf or vampire.

[a_bourget05]

oh buddy...don't start getting into relationships until you really need too. At your age you should just be hanging out with friends and doing fun stuff and relationships just star to complicate things. You're young, you've got plently of time...