SO i got a girl situation going on lol

[wallstreetkidx]

ok ppl heres the deal .... im dating this really gorgeous,intelligent girl right now. before we started dating we used to laugh and talk for hours. now im getting mixed signals from here.... She says she misses me, then when i show up its like hi and bye  ...... can someone decipher the girl code for me! lol....basically what im asking is should i fall back  and go with the flow,  or continue to make pursue her wholeheartedly? thanks all you fusion cash heads!

[diala84]

I have a couple of ideas.

If she is busy due to her own plans like parties, hanging out with the girls, shopping for clothes then she probably isn't all that interested or invested in the relationship.

If she is busy because of work or other obligations then she may truly want to spend time with you and misses you but doesn't really have a choice at the moment.

Some tips: look at her body language (rolling eyes= bad, eye contact = good,) and tone of voice (do her comments seem forced or genuine).

Good luck. 

[twol]

Seems like she says she misses you because she just wants the attention. If she blows you off when you go to visit her then she probably isn't interested.

My advice: don't make an effort to talk to her/ text her/ anything. If she stops trying to talk to you, then you know she wasn't worth it and is probably just looking for attention. If she keeps trying to talk to you then you know she's really interested and trying to make it work. Hope it works out!

[c2deryke2]

That depends. She could really miss you, and still not have time to spend with you. There is sometimes a week straight when my husband and I kiss as we cross each other in the doorway. I miss him like crazy, but life's obligations sometimes get in the way. Just make sure you go at her pace, tell her that you would like to see her more, and that you want to understand what is causing so much stress, but support the needs she has that cause her to be gone so much. If you cant handle her job, that you can't handle that super-beautiful intelligent bombshell. But if you can she might make all your patience worth it

[syncflame]

same with my girl i think its just her hormones

[Dcownzu]

just find things to talk about like random things that can devolop into a deeper convo

[scarroll452]

I think you need to talk to her, voice your concerns and listen to what she has to say.