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[MistyM3]

Ok so ladies I have a big concern. I am 24 with 3 kids and here this past year i had my tubes tied. I thought i was pregnant but turns out no. But i havent had a period in quite a while and i think it is messing with my hormones or something. I have lost my sexual desire for my bf and don't even want to kiss him anymore. I don't know if its hormone's or depression b/c of the fact that i want another baby and can't have one.

i would just like to hear some of the comments you might have. I know i need to see the doctor but usually the doctors haven't had these types of things personally. so if you've had this problem then please feel free to give me some advice. I have to force myself to have sex with my bf about once a month now. 

[yelenaily]

try taking "FertilityBlend for women" it stabilizes your cycle and stuff. As for sex drive, I wouldn't know what to tell you... I'm kind of in the same boat and my best guess is that it's some sort of depression.

[dougmattson]

Maybe a guys opinion my help.

[mgarmstrong]

My cycle was messed up after having my tubes tied also.  My gyn suggested that I go on the pill to regulate it.......Hello, why do you think I got my tubes tied, I don't want to take the pill.  I has never gone back to what was normal for me prior to the procedure.
Not sure about the other but wish you well.

[hemapreethaa]

am sorry, no idea of the fertility problem, but, as far as Sex is concerned as the other one am also in the same boat, i dont know even if someone tells the reason i wud be happy rather.

[lightningclix]

Ok so ladies I have a big concern. I am 24 with 3 kids and here this past year i had my tubes tied. I thought i was pregnant but turns out no. But i havent had a period in quite a while and i think it is messing with my hormones or something. I have lost my sexual desire for my bf and don't even want to kiss him anymore. I don't know if its hormone's or depression b/c of the fact that i want another baby and can't have one.

i would just like to hear some of the comments you might have. I know i need to see the doctor but usually the doctors haven't had these types of things personally. so if you've had this problem then please feel free to give me some advice. I have to force myself to have sex with my bf about once a month now. 

After I had my 6th child, I too had my tubes tied...I went into a very deep depression, and still to this day feel exactly how you feel!  My daughter is now 4 years old, and I still have this empty feeling inside....I am happy that I have 6 beautiful, healthy children - but I still feel like crap!  I wish I could help you!!!  Let me know if you find out something!  Good luck! 

[florezitta10]

Ok so ladies I have a big concern. I am 24 with 3 kids and here this past year i had my tubes tied. I thought i was pregnant but turns out no. But i havent had a period in quite a while and i think it is messing with my hormones or something. I have lost my sexual desire for my bf and don't even want to kiss him anymore. I don't know if its hormone's or depression b/c of the fact that i want another baby and can't have one.

i would just like to hear some of the comments you might have. I know i need to see the doctor but usually the doctors haven't had these types of things personally. so if you've had this problem then please feel free to give me some advice. I have to force myself to have sex with my bf about once a month now. 

Hello, I believe it is the other way around your hormones are messing with your cycle. I know the best thing is to see your doctor about it but IMHO. You would have to check a few things A. are you over weight? B. are you stressed? and i believe this is the case because you say you want to have another child and can't.

About the sex. Stress could also be to blame as well as to your hormones and being  over weight can cause this. If this is your case. Or maybe is a simple matter of being bored of the same old same old as it seems to happen often i too have been on this boat. But i find that if maybe you get more involved you will find it more appealing. Do you guys have date night, spend time alone together doing whatever. Sometimes the best sex comes from just being around each other doing random stuff. Maybe it would be a good idea to discuss this wt hubby(if you haven't yet) I hope all goes well I know from personal experience how you feel. It sucks to not be in the same spot as your partner. Hope to hear more from you.

Happy Holidays,

Kathy

[home_teachin]

How long ago did you have your last baby? Could it be a post partum depression? I felt half crazy for at least 6 months after my son was born. I've never had my tubes tied, so I can't help you there. Keep going back to the Dr. until you get an answer and don't let them blow you off.