But stop being so freaked out over someone getting a little "too close". Just chill. I still hug people and hang out with folks without masks. I also use common sense and boost my immune system.
The only thing is (and I agree in general with the other things you and linderlizzie said), but I still understand the mentality behind the "too close" freakout. Maybe not the outrageous hissy fit freakouts that are absolutely over the top ridiculous. But the invasions of personal space are sometimes beyond reasonable.
LONG before COVID ever was a thing, my wife has always had a real problem with the people in line at grocery checkouts (or anyplace that has a queue line = banks, BMV, fast food counters) who tailgate you. **Give me room to get my stuff out of my cart and onto the conveyor belt and back the *bleep* off! My turn is now. Your turn is next. Nobody is going to squeeze in between us in front of you because there is no room for anyone else to get into this narrow line ahead of you. Just back up and give me room to breathe!** I am a little less bothered by it than her, but it still bugs me a bit as well.
Add COVID to the equation and yes it does get a little bit more irritating. But putting COVID completely aside, there still IS such a thing as personal space. We aren't dogs, so your nose doesn't have to be inserted into my *bleep* for social greeting as we are waiting in line for someone to help us.
I know that this situation isn't really what you guys are talking about, but just some perspective into why some people get a little bit irritated with the close spaces. Telling or expecting THEM to chill out is really not the issue or the proper place to assign 'blame' IMO.