need your advice

[Itileneai]

My wife has become some kind of monster, because of her I do not want to return home, what should I do? I love her, but it is not possible to be in the same apartment with her, I want to escape. What should I do?

[Nancy5]

What do you mean by monster?  I would get her to a doctor for a check up.  Personality changes could mean lots of things from a brain tumor, dementia to a simple vitamin deficiency

[dreamyxo]

Talk to her.  Is she going through problems (personal, work health).  There is a reason behind her behavior find out what it is.

[tantricia44]

Please,Elaborate on what do you mean by she’s become a monster. I need more information so that I can help you better.

[oldbuddy]

Whenever my wife becomes a monster, I just go in my computer room and shut the door.

[DEBMZ6]

Let her know that you are there for her when she is ready to talk.

[sipingyu]

Don't know the specifics so hard to give concrete advice. Just wish to share that after I gave birth to my son, I had postpartum depression but I didn't realize that in hindsight. With the pandemic, different people might struggle in different ways. I hope that she will seek help or talk to others that she trust or search for information online. Hope that both she and you will feel better.

[stevensm4]

Whenever my wife becomes a monster, I just go in my computer room and shut the door.

Lol, I love this! But, for an answer, it sounds like she might need some therapy. Some kind of counseling from a psychologist or maybe a psychiatrist if some medication might be necessary and even then, its not a quick fix. It will take in indeterminate amount of time to deal with what problems she has if at all.

[oldbuddy]

Honestly, I don't believe she needs any help in that area and can't remember any time in 49 years she has been a monster more than a few minutes.

[Nancy5]

Honestly, I don't believe she needs any help in that area and can't remember any time in 49 years she has been a monster more than a few minutes.

I think most of us have been ‘monsters’ occasionally.  I’m sure my husband will agree with that 😁lol

[mrisha]

It seems something has changed in your wife's life.  Try talking to her.  If that doesn't work, go to a therapist if she will agree.  Some one just doesn't turn into a monster (or your version of one).

[Arappi]

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[ssarber]

I think when asking advice, you would need to share more details of what you mean.

On the other hand, I really dont think asking advice from people on a survey site is probably the best idea. Perhaps try counseling, talking to your religious leader (if you have one)  or talking to her about your issues might help

[potluck6]

Monster ok does it mean violent.  If so then stay away. Maybe bring her flowers  the monster might like them. Please keep us informed about what is happening.

[santa7]

Whenever my wife becomes a monster, I just go in my computer room and shut the door.

Does your wife read your fusioncash forum posts?  lol.