UNHAPPILY MARRIED!!!

[namanda]

BEING IN AN UNHAPPY MARRIAGE IS NOT ONLY DEPRESSING BUT UNHEALTHY. ESPECIALLY FOR WOMEN. WOMEN ARE FOUND TO GET BORED FASTER IN A MARRIAGE THAN MEN. MAINLY BECAUSE WOMEN LOVE HARDER THAN MEN DO. 

[rcbrad]

Sorry that you are having problems.  It is really hard to vote or offer advice, unless people have more details about what the problems are.  You do not have to spill your guts, but perhaps some general details would enable you to receive a constructive answer.  Anyone of the answers could be a solution depending on what the problem is, with the exception of cheating. 

[sdotk]

pretty crazy topic but if youre unhappy discuss it and part ways

[Tere2]

I would try discussing it first then counciling, but you both have to want it to work. I hope what ever your problems are you can work it out. Mine didn't work out but good luck with yours.

[samiole32]

I think discussion is the best way but both sides got to be willing to make it work and I can't see having happinese elsewhere as a solution.

[Aughiskie]

If you are with someone that you love and care about, counseling or at least discussing the issues with your partner is a solid first step.  However, if you no longer care about the person you're with (I know that sounds cold, but it happens) I'd say it is probably best to just cut your loss and leave. That way the both of you have a chance to find someone else that makes you happy.

[Sohcahtoa]

Don't cheat.  Its never worth it.  It makes the break-up harder, not easier.

Find out exactly what is bothering you and speak up about it.  If it can't be resolved, then go with the divorce.

Question though if you don't mind me asking: How long were you two together before you got married?  It seems to be commonplace now for people to get married to quickly and for the wrong reasons.

[Vanderson00]

This isn't really a topic I wanted to read haha. But something made me open it... I accidently found out I am getting engaged on Christmas...jeez this is depressing lol. 

[rketcham]

 



...just my .02

work on your marrige dont post on a forum!

[rileyjade09]

im sorry to hear that! im not even married to the guy im with n! we r perect together! n engaged!

[kilophkadamas]

Yes please have a heart to heart talk with your spouse. If the feelings are mutual, great, you can both move on with your lives. If not, you've got to resolve your problems before they get out of control.

[deekeepinitreal2009]

Talk everything over with your spouse. Dont cheat that is the worst mistake alot of people makes

[kesto4]

Take your husband to counseling and see where it goes from there. Do not stop communication.

[cowgirlx]

Look inside and decide what is right ffor you.  Don't cheat tho.  If you find someone else.  Leave first then get together with them.  Cheating is never the answer

[florezitta10]

Look inside and decide what is right ffor you.  Don't cheat tho.  If you find someone else.  Leave first then get together with them.  Cheating is never the answer

I agree 100% cheating is never the answer. Try talking to your spouse and if things don't get better Leave and wait for the right person to come along.