So how do you prefer the density of your mattress and pillow? I like a somewhat soft, plush mattress but it can't be so soft that there is really no support. However, firm or very firm mattresses are very uncomfortable for me and feel like sleeping on a plywood board. I like pillows that say they are good for combination sleepers, or on my back and side also. I like it also to be plush but not completely collapse when I lay on it. I think I am going to try pillows that says they stay cool the next time I buy some.