There also it a problem when it comes to posts , there have been many times i've posted , texted or written things that the person takes 100% wrong , AND the little smile faces don't make it always work. I find allot of people over think a post and read into it different meaning. I have a pretty good hunch she is talking about the post i made saying people who copy stuff on face book can be stupid. NOT meaning this lady at all... I have a FB with 4300 people all on dog stuff and get hundreds of stupid post a month. Some are just plain well some make me really wonder ?/ I have a problem with ski masks and guns as i was held up in my mothers office , tied to a chair and pinched with pliers and cracked across the face with a gun and still wear the scar . And any thing to do with these type jokes i don't always see as funny ! I'm sorry if you were hurt , it was not ment to be mean. Also this time of year hurts me to death as its the day my mom died. And I hate being with out her at Easter every year as you do over your husband ! So again if its my post i am very sorry !
You are right in people over think things. And I think a lot of things are taken the wrong way. I can type something and thinking it in my head it is totally innocent. But depending on somebody's mental state of mind on any particular day they take it all wrong. And some people are just offended by everything. And some people are just looking for a fight. And others just want to feel high and mighty and correct people. And NO I am not directing my comments at any particular person on this thread. SO if you feel it is toward you then YOU have the problem.
It is like the jokes you said you do not find funny. With me I guess it depends on the joke. Some of the old cartoons that are kind of the same thing I don't have a problem with. I don't think you should yell at somebody for sharing a cartoon like that. But again, it depends on the cartoon. The old Bugs Bunny cartoon type things where the guy has on a mask and has a gun is nothing to get upset about. But some of the ones today that are graphic and violent I don't like. Or that depict killing certain public people who are well known.
For the most part people are snowflake pansies these days and if anybody disagrees with them they get all butthurt and want to shut the other person down. There is a difference in disagreeing and personally attacking someone.
If somebody has a problem with your posts I would not worry about it. If they don't want to see what you post they can "ignore member" and they will not see it.
Btw, I am sorry about your mom. I would think all holidays are harder.